Looking for a toy to help

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Lizhiam

Hi I support a gentleman with very limited movement, he is sexually frustrated and after finding a toy to help with his needs  Can anyone recommend anything 

PSHEexpert

HI @Lizhiam, can I point you at The Pleasure Garden or Hot Octopuss online?  They are both disability friendly sex shops and will be able to make suggestions about adaptations to suit... 

Lizhiam

Thanks PSHexpert thanks for your advice 

PSHEexpert

Let us know if they are any help and if not let’s try something else! 

Lizhiam

Not sure this is what he could use, does anyone know of any groups where people can get together and talk about these sort of things .

Markmywords

The problem is that with vulnerable people being involved, the consequences of things going wrong would be very serious.

Proper research must be done so that the vulnerable do not get ripped-off or worse. I understand that carers who have the fortitude for it can sometimes accompany severely disabled clients and be nearby.

I suggest looking at the web site of The Outsiders Trust. They list a few recommended workers and also mention the largest sex worker web sites. Physical accessibility of the locations of such services may not be suitable though.

I won't supply links but google and the above will find the answers.

Apart from agencies it's all 100% legal in principle but the unwary could still encounter a "wrong un."

Good luck to those who can make use of the information and do be careful.