ESA Change reported heard nothing back please help.

hey calcotti, yes i've spoken to you before on the other thread  

ah ok, and yeah i'm hopeful that something will go in, in the early hours of the morning as normal and that the letter is going to turn up tomorrow too, if it doesn't then i think i'll have to ring them again. 

yeah with any luck i'm hoping the normal amount might at least come in with any luck, i'm just concered incase it doesn't as they cant expect me to finacially survive off of no money at all  

i've just been checking my account i can only assume despite being informed of both changes around 10 days ago they still haven't looked at it or something as while the bank details have now been updated as requested and they were informed of my partner moving in which in turn would slightly lower my entitlement by around £37 every 2 weeks they've gone ahead and paid the usual £395.20 in so i'm just thankful that eitherway i know we'll be able to manage through the next 2 week period although it does make me question what the hold up is why it hasn't been changed, but i've done my bit by informing them so i'll just leave it down to them to sort now i guess, thank you for the advice @janer1967 i really appreciate it  

ESA Update: so 1 week ago i received a text from the DWP on a saturday morning asking me to contact ESA regarding my claim stating that i needed to contact them immediately as they needed to ask some questions about my partner for my esa claim so we contacted them on monday, due to the fact i really struggle speaking to the benefits department due to severe anxiety etc i passed security then eventually put my partner on the phone to them, they basically stated that they wanted to know what date my partner moved in (Again) despite the fact this was previously stated to them upon reporting that my partner had moved in, and also they wanted to know my partners employment status, anyway because there was generally some confusion between me and my partner as to how much notice my partner had to give to leave his current employment of which he handed in his notice on the 27th of febuary he didn't move in until the beginning of April anyway, so he stated to benefits that his last work date was the "1st of april" as intially is manager said that would likely be that date anyways it conspires that now we have received the p45 that his employment offically terminated on the 28th of febuary again a date before he even moved in anyway although my partner didn't receive his p45 until the 31st of March, he hasn't received any money since moving in with me since he quit his job his last ever payment was at the end of Feb he was forloughed anyway due to the lockdown as the premises was closed, so we informed them of that information they requested and the guy my partner spoke to tried saying that "oh it seems like UC would be appropiate" which to my knowledge is completly innacurate... but he would pass over the information and we should then hear back via post ESA's decision

on to today i received the most horrendous letter from ESA stating that from the 26th of March i would no longer be entitled to income related ESA (no reason given) and i Also wouldn't be entitled to contribuition based ESA either worked out between the years 2008/2009 i dont want contribution based benefit anyway and wouldn't be entitled to it anyway, so i phoned them in tears also thrown up whilst on the phone several times throughout through all the stress shaking crying a right mess i honestly cant cope with things like this, anyways the guy i ended up speaking to i asked him how they reached this decision he couldn't tell me he said it seemed like a very rash decision and couldn't understand why i'd just been sent that, and to try and not worry about it they're now sending some kind of form out to get everything down on paper then they can try and reasses everything and try and get my claim back properly open, so i stated my partner handed in his notice on the 27th and his employment offically terminated on the (28th of Feb obviously now having received the p45) to which the guy said oh we have the 1st of April down here, so i just stated about the confusion which to be frank is only a difference of 1 day nevertheless... we've now got to complete this form and send it back, ESA never once asked for my partners p45 or any previous pay slips or anything he did ask if my partner was currently claiming any other benefits which i said no as he currently isn't claiming anything, although it is our intention eventually for my partner to claim carers allowance for me as he does provide around the clock care and support to me so he would be entitled to that, and given he provides full support to me he Will Not be looking for any form of employment whatsoever, could anyone please shed any light on what is going on or what the best steps are, as surely they cant say i'm not entiltied to any money to live on i'm long term sick and disabled physhically incapable of working so just because my partner who is my carer with or without carers allowance being paid and being unemployed before he moved in they cant say that i'm now entilted to nothing? 

my partner is going to help and fill in the form once it arrives housing benefit now hasn't been paid over 2 weeks so rent debt is stacking up council tax too but they cant have what i dont have and we're down to very little money to last us god knows how long   can they do this why is this happening? i'm so confused mentally and emotionally exhausted i just dont know how much more of this i can take any advice would truly be appreciated thank you in advanced.   

Hey calcotti thank you for your responce, yes sorry i didn't explain it properly my head is completely in a mess right now, when i initally reported that my partner had moved in, they were informed that my partner was no longer employed and handed in his notice on the 27th of Febuary and was awaiting his p45 , so they knew that information and my partner told on the call (in relation to the text to call *before he had the p45*) that his last working day was the "1st of march" which is only one day difference as their was only 28 days in febuary and the p45 states on it the last date of employment was the 28th of febuary my partner moved in on the 2nd of March and ESA was informed on the 15th of March and now ESA are aware that the P45 states the 28th of Febuary, they also know that my partner has no money and last received any money from forlough employment back on the 26th of febuary and since the 2nd of march when he moved in has been living on my ESA claim ever since as any wage he did had went on paying off a prior family debt he had. 

** please note where i said the ESA guy said they had the "1st of April" i meant to say the 1st of March, trying to type and keep my brain accurately functioning right now is pretty difficult. 

i know the guy on the phone said he would send out a form then they can get it all on paper and find out my partners circumstances and relationship to me despite this is all things they've been told i'm so fed up of all this