Disabled parking bay issue outside school
My son who has very complex medical & cognitive needs attends a mainstream school part time. He finishes school 1hour 15minutes earlier than the other children yet day after day when collecting him I find both disabled bays occupied by parents also with blue badges who turn up at least 90mins early to collect their children despite clearly seeing my child is the only child who finishes school early. I nearly broke down in tears today as i could not park because I am told by admin that these parents are turning up sometimes 2 hours early for school pick up. I was fuming but rather than get into it with any of the parents logged my complaint to the admin staff who fully sympathised with me and said they would flag the issue to the head teacher. I sent one of the mums who I know a message later to apologise for not engaging with her earlier as I was angry and tired but that I was livid regarding the ongoing parking issue but thanked her for eventually allowing me to park (she eventually moved her car forward to grant me space with two mins to spare for me to collect my child). She ignored the message which is laughable as I did not need to thank her why is she arriving 2 hours early for a school pick up when only my child finishes early from school (school confirmed they collect much later). *Sigh* . Am I wrong to be annoyed?
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