Hi, my name is dollydog73! My MR was refused, and I'm really struggling

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  • dollydog73
    dollydog73 Online Community Member Posts: 26 Listener
    Thankyou will try citizens advice bureau 
  • dollydog73
    dollydog73 Online Community Member Posts: 26 Listener
    Thankyou Libby feel a bit better today will definitely look in to the information you have sent thanks dollydog73
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  • dollydog73
    dollydog73 Online Community Member Posts: 26 Listener
    Thanks for the support 
  • dollydog73
    dollydog73 Online Community Member Posts: 26 Listener
    edited January 2022
    Thankyou for all your support my dad has be en in touch and brought me  a food shop and gas and electric it's get paid tomorrow as well   but thankyou to you all for all Ur support it's been really hard ,,,don't even think Victorians had it this bad at least they had a fireplace  to keep warm ,life is so hard one minute you have it all then you have nothing ,,my thoughts of the day don't take the good life for granted it can end in a heartbeat anything can happen ...
  • dollydog73
    dollydog73 Online Community Member Posts: 26 Listener
    Hi Hampstead I'm sorry this has happened it throws everything in to disary ,,you have to fight as hard and stressful as it is ,,I think the system is cruel and invades Ur human rights,,after all we don't even know these assesseers sorry about my spelling ,,they could be from  Mickey mouse clubhouse for all we know sorry that bit was ment to make you laugh ,it's a painful up heave I feel Ur pain I really do ,,you need to stay strong and positive ,,mean as you start to go on take care dollydog73 I'm here if you need to talk 
  • Karawen
    Karawen Online Community Member Posts: 64 Contributor
    Just a thought regarding travel to medical appointments, have you thought of checking with the hospitals General Office on whether you can claim travel expenses back?  The Health Board where I work reimburse patients who are on benefits.  It may be worth giving the hospital switchboard a ring, they can probably advise you either way.
  • Ross_Alumni
    Ross_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,611 Championing
    Welcome to the community @dollydog73, and thanks for getting back to us. 

    I'm sorry to hear that you still haven't heard back, that's a shame, but hopefully it won't be too much longer. I understand why it is causing you so much concern, but please do your best to stay as positive as possible and take care of yourself as best as you can :) 

    We will support you on the community as much as possible too, so please feel free to post here whenever you like.

    How are your physio appointments going? Hopefully they help you get better and enable you to tranistion back into work smoothly.
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Online Community Member Posts: 21,922 Championing
    There is sometimes a community transport service for appointments 
    Mine you pay qn annual fee of £6 and then a nominal fee per mile nowhere near as much as taxi 

    You can then book them to take you to appts , shopping, clubs etc 

    My hospital journey cost me 4.50 against taxi fare of £30 

    Try your local council for details or do search on Internet 
  • Alex_Alumni
    Alex_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,536 Championing
    Hi @dollydog73 thanks for keeping us updated, we appreciate it. I'm very glad to hear that your dad has been able to help out. How are you feeling today?

    We're here to support you, so as always, let us know if you need help with anything :)
  • dollydog73
    dollydog73 Online Community Member Posts: 26 Listener
    I got a phone call off my doctor today I've not told them anything but they said I've got to be referred to a physiatrist because I'm so stressed I'm having good days and bad days ,,I've been put on sertraline 50 mg ,,but thankyou for all the support everyone I'm so sorry for them that got refused it it doesn't half impact you in a horrible way ,, everyone who has messaged me please stay strong I feel your pain really I do ,,we all have a heart and feel upset I can relate ,,if I had that magic wand I would reverse all of Ur decision so you don't have to suffer the upheaval of DWP xx 
  • dollydog73
    dollydog73 Online Community Member Posts: 26 Listener
    Thankyou to everyone for all Ur support I've listened to Ur advice and have followed through with it with all Ur support what ever the outcome now I need to stop stressing now ,,I'll probably be zombified with the sertraline so I'll check back in after a the weekend at some point and thankyou all again you have been so supportive all of you ,,I have read Ur comments ,, t thankyou stay well lovely people xxxx
  • Alex_Alumni
    Alex_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,536 Championing
    I'm glad to hear we've helped to support you @dollydog73 and I hope you have a relaxing weekend :)