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When I met guys on a dating site, some stopped texting me, but then they started texting me again

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Splatmate24
Splatmate24 Community member Posts: 411 Courageous
Some of the men I meet online dating some did stop texting me when i did put effort but when i give up on the men they seem to text me back. This is also happening with one men that i did meet up but got into a relationship with one women but when i did move on from him. I started texting a new man who had a few things in common , that was honest,holidays,dogs, walking and sims . Then the first guys started texting me again after being in a relationship for a while. The same thing happens two more times. It was only on Facebook that I spotted the first guy and then I moved on to the new guy, whom I've been texting. What do you think of the second guy? I think he is good, but I don't think the first guy is good either. I no more intersted or not attraction to the first guy and is a player and maybe as cheater .  that is an instant turn off if the person is a cheater or a player.What do you think about my experience with some guys that i met through online dating

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  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,981 Disability Gamechanger
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    How is it currently going with the new guy @Splatmate24? Positive to see you are still recognising and applying your red and green flags - well done to you. It doesn't sound like you have been through the best experiences with these guys but hopefully more luck soon  :)
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  • Splatmate24
    Splatmate24 Community member Posts: 411 Courageous
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    @L_Volunteer the current new guy has some green flags are like going ,slow, honest and trying to get know and he did show some picture of his two dogs . i did move on from the other men that were more red flags and did stopped texting and i also did take a break from online dating . my mum thinks he is unsafe about one he was assume that he going to pick me in his care but i reply no i will be coming in my mum care and said ok seem to respect and is was a safety . my mum always has be like that with only me when comes with dating and relationship . the first guy that did started messaging me again when i did stopped messaging him and was still in relationship that saw on facebook and did rejected him and put him friendzone . i also rejected another men since he seem to be too bossy and become friends . 

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