How do you feel about the next guy who doesn't mess around with me like the first guy did?

Splatmate24
Splatmate24 Online Community Member Posts: 411 Contributor
in Relationships
I went on a first date/meetup with the guy I was texting on Whatsapp and he didn't mess with me at all. We had our first date on June 8 and he texted me if he might not be able to make it due to sleep problems, but ended up making it. It was at a public park near my town. In reality, the first guy I met up with messed me up after the first date but stopped messing around after that. I had to check out his Facebook to find out that he had already gotten into multiple relationships with two different women. i got turned off by the first guy and moved on to the next guy who had autism and adhd. He also had a different profile than other guys I found on online dating sites called freedating sites. I the first date/meetup went well, and he wanted a short date. also met up with/ was on a first date with. What are your thoughts on these two

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  • Stellar
    Stellar Online Community Member Posts: 270 Empowering
    it sounds like you dodged a bullet with the first guy. second guy is too early to tell.

    also side note the fact you keep having to come onto Scope to ask these questions is kinda concerning because you're oversharing so much online and it shows you're at a high risk of missing red flags and ending up in an abusive relationship. do you not have any friends you can ask in person for things like this?
  • Splatmate24
    Splatmate24 Online Community Member Posts: 411 Contributor
    @Stellar nope don't have friends and i already know about the red flags that i didn't understand unlike my past me did  miss red flags . most of previous friend were all fake friends that i did had in college but i don't like making friends . just kept me to myself . my parents do not help at all with dating advice . sister do not help but try to . older sister seem to be bit better but don't always see . 
  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,922 Championing
    It is really positive to hear you now recognise what you need and want @Splatmate24 and more of those red flags. Am I hearing it right that your older sister tries to help with dating advice but you don't always get to see your older sister as often as you would like to?

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