Hello,
I am needing some advice please. Please be kind, this is very difficult for myself and I'm scared for my Daughter.
My Daughter is 33, she has been on Esa support group for some years. She has 'very complex' Mental health needs and is not able to live on her own -
Plus, she also has severe Crohns Disease and struggling with this.
Her father is her appointee at this time, but he no longer lives with us....she lives with me. Her father received the Migration letter to UC for her yesterday. He has till November to apply. Because our daughter is in a Vulnerable place we have not just yet let her know.…of course we will need to tell her but we want to reduce any stress time that we can for her.
She is terrified of the benefits people....This began in January. This was my fault - because she saw how afraid i was of them when I went thtough a Reveiw on UC.
She will often develop fear of certain matters, when I went through the reveiw I was very anxious - and she saw this. The fear became so problematic that everytime the post came she was afraid and would panic - I have on a few occasions put the post on safe keep so that she wasn't stressed every day.
Her therapist does know of the fears she has and is helping her but fear is irrational - at least to some extent.....because now the letter is here and I'm incredibly worried of how my daughter will be affected.
So, my questions please.
- Is is best to apply as soon as possible?
- When applying whose bank account details do we give? Her Money goes into her father's account then he Transfers it to hers - would we need to give her bank account?
- She has her Passport for ID. She has never travelled but her passport was important for ID because she doesn't have bills ect in her name.
- She lives with me so has no HB or Council tax to apply for.
- Is it best to apply via online so there is a journal?
- She has some savings but not near to 6k.
- Will they request bank statements at this stage?
- Transitional protection - it states that she has that on the letter.…?
- At what stage of this process will they request to speak to my daughter?
- I guess it won't stop at the migration - once she's on UC, how soon before they reveiw her and request her own bank statement s?
We do understand that her payments will be affected once this is applied for - her father said he is going to carry on paying her money regardless so she won't be affected with her money.
I know her fears now are down to how badly I dealt with UC - I feel terrible enough, please, I ask for kindness with your replys.