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Support for my son

Szilvia
Szilvia Member Posts: 4 Listener
I am looking for a support to my son and family

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  • Ami2301
    Ami2301 Community Co-Production Group Posts: 7,946 Disability Gamechanger
    Hhi @Szilvia and welcome to the community? What type of support are you looking for? :)
    Disability Gamechanger - 2019
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Community Co-Production Group Posts: 12,265 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @Szilvia - Welcome to the community, & thank you for joining. How are you & your family? :)
  • Abdi_Scope
    Abdi_Scope Posts: 229 Pioneering
    Hi @Szilvia - welcome to the community. We are happy you have reached out. Hope we will be able to help you and your son. How are you today?
  • Ails
    Ails Member Posts: 2,256 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @Szilvia and welcome to the Community.  It is nice to meet you.  You have come to the right place for some support as we are here for you and your son.  If you can please let us know a bit more about your situation then we will be best placed to help you.  I hope you are well and having a nice evening.  All the best.  :smile:
    Winner of the Scope New Volunteer Award 2019.   :)
  • Szilvia
    Szilvia Member Posts: 4 Listener
    edited April 2020
    Hi Alice,
    I am a carer,my son is assessed by a Professor,but we Still need to be assessed for 5 different need,such us ADHD,ASD,dyspraxya,learning difficulties and neurological Assesment.I have debt and I am a Single mother who Like to pay horse Riding for him,swimming and other bits and boys to by.We also need to move in a biger Property where we are Free from emotional abuse from our neibehoor who is Loud and always yelling on his little boy.I emaild victim support and my next neibehoore is very tired about tham and they also planning to move out.
    I am not working at the moment ,however I applied.
    I am studying to meet for my son expectation and would love to apply for founding for us to cover my £800 debt and able to pay the assesmentv or the activities for my Son.

    looking forward to hearing from You.

    szilvia oczela
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  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Community Co-Production Group Posts: 12,265 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @Szilvia - Personal information such as phone numbers are not allowed (to protect your privacy). Please would you edit your post by clicking on the cogwheel symbol in the top right hand corner above your message, then click 'Edit' then 'Save comment' once you've removed your number, thank you.
    As assessments for your son would likely not be possible just now due to Coronovirus, that would be something to look into later. It would be very difficult to move into another property too due to Coronovirus.
    As far as debt goes, there is a charity that can help & support you. See: https://www.stepchange.org/
    I hope that may help for the moment, & we are all here for you to message any time. Please keep in touch.

  • Szilvia
    Szilvia Member Posts: 4 Listener
    Szilvia said:
    Hi Alice,
    I am a carer,my son is assessed by a Professor,but we Still need to be assessed for 5 different need,such us ADHD,ASD,dyspraxya,learning difficulties and neurological Assesment.I have debt and I am a Single mother who Like to pay horse Riding for him,swimming and other bits and boys to by.We also need to move in a biger Property where we are Free from emotional abuse from our neibehoor who is Loud and always yelling on his little boy.I emaild victim support and my next neibehoore is very tired about tham and they also planning to move out.
    I am not working at the moment ,however I applied.
    I am studying to meet for my son expectation and would love to apply for founding for us to cover my £800 debt and able to pay the assesmentv or the activities for my Son.

    looking forward to hearing from You.

    szilvia

  • Abdi_Scope
    Abdi_Scope Posts: 229 Pioneering

    Hey @Szilvia -  with so much happening around us it is a challenge when you are still having to wait for assessments.

    How old is you son? 

    What activities is he able to and enjoys at home?

    Have you applied for any benefits you may find speaking to one of our advisors on 08088003333 or you can email them  https://www.scope.org.uk/helpline/ they may be able to talk you through a few options. It is open from 8am to 8pm. 

    Maybe  @Joanne_Scope may be able to advise on this here.

    We have a wealth of information on a https://community.scope.org.uk/categories/what-benefits-am-i-entitled-to-nd and a community that can support you as @chiarieds has said. You may wish to see and post to other threads like  https://community.scope.org.uk/categories/what-benefits-am-i-entitled-to-

    Take care and please let us know how you get on with @chiareds suggestion and any of the above.

  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Member Posts: 6,389 Disability Gamechanger
    edited April 2020
    Hello @Szilvia   Pleased to meet you thank you for joining and sharing.

    Please if I can add some more links to organisation associations charities to help and advise.

    Please if I can suggest write all these down every ones information then you have a record and references to look at.

    This is something we do as a community advise and help members.

    For your son.

    ADHD charity

    https://www.ukadhd.com

    Dyspraxia 

    https://www.dyspraxiafoundation.org.uk

    Helpline 01462 454 986

    ASD  Autistic Society 
    https://www.autism.org.uk

    Helpline 020 7833 2299

    Money advice service debt lots of help support and advice.

    https://www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk

    Helpline 0800 138 7777

    Turn 2us another one similar.

    https://www.turn2us.org.uk

    Some other help and support do have a lot to offer groups welfare and Mother Children . Families.

    https://www.salvationarmy.org.uk

    Please ask the community anything any questions we are here to help your not alone.

    Please take care and safe.

    @thespiceman


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  • Szilvia
    Szilvia Member Posts: 4 Listener
    Thank You Abdi,
    it is very difficult to talk about this all the time.I am happy if You forward my e-mail to her and a time for Call.I am so Sorry I get into the point when emotionaly is difficult to solve this.I Hope we will Life it up from this deep suffering .
  • Chloe_Scope
    Chloe_Scope Scope Posts: 10,557 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @Szilvia, just wanted to check in to see how you were doing. :)
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  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Posts: 8,552

    Scope community team

    Hi @Szilvia and welcome. If you'd rather not talk about this here, it might be worth giving our helpline a call on 0808 800 3333 as they might be able to provide you with some support.
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