Assesment by telephone

meymay93

Hi 
I just done my assestment on telephone but very stress  I was cry I want stop cry but I cant I am very worrying because I cray if effected I hope he understand me 

janer1967

Hi @meymay93 Dont worry at getting upset most people do, it is hard to hold the emotion when having to explain to someone how you are affected and why

I cried most of the way through my first f2f as it seems you are confirming your disability to them and yourself and admitting to yourself what you can no longer do

The assessors are used to claimants getting upset and are used to taking this into consideration

Cher_Alumni

Hello @meymay93

I'm sending you a big virtual hug for getting through the assessment, well done you.  I know it isn't easy.  

Please try not to worry about crying.  You did your best and that's what is important.  

Did you have somebody with you for support?  

meymay93

Hi  
I done all by my self but I am panic cry upset I am badly stress no one whit me I am on my own ????

Chloe_Alumni

Hi @meymay93, it sounds like it's been a really stressful day for you! I know the assessments can be really overwhelming, is there anything you could do this evening to relax and take your mind off it?

You have done amazing to get through it, we've all got our fingers crossed for you.

ernie2009

keep your chin up meymay93 and hopefully you,ve done the worst bit now. ive got the same to go through 8am wednesday morning. i know my mental issues might get the better of me and hope my temper dosnt . have a nice evening and relax.

meymay93

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Telepfone assestment is not good at all because they not see you if they see us better [removed by moderator] I hope all goes well to you I pray for you

Cher_Alumni

Hi @meymay93 it's lovely to see you on the community today.  

Do you have anything nice planned?  Is it sunny where you are too? 

meymay93

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I don't like sun at all my weather is cold and dark sun not make me happy my friend whit me watch tv all day <moderator removed - personal content>

Cher_Alumni

@meymay93 Ah that's fair enough.  Sun isn't for everyone!  I'm glad your friend has kept you company.  

Make sure to take care of yourself 

meymay93

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Thank you so much  she gone stay this evening whit me she call my dougther she thing I am.not well  she found flim on tv she said clear on mine just concentrate flim 

chiarieds

Hi @meymay93 - I am pleased your friend is staying with you. I hope you both enjoy the film as it will distract you.

meymay93

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She found comedy flim which is I don't like at all all my life I am never like but she tried to make me happy 

chiarieds

Hi @meymay93 - your friend is kind in hoping to make you happy. Just sharing time watching something together is good, and she is giving her time to help you. I hope you manage to get some sleep tonight and feel a little more relaxed now anyway.

meymay93

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Thank  you so much flim just finish she make me hot chocolate  she very good friend chatting past now she told me till you get better I am stay whit you  she make me comfortable at all time

Tori_Scope

That's great @meymay93 I'm really glad she's there for you