Good evening Lovely people!! I am hoping to connect with you here. I have spent the better part of 49 years trying to fit in and cope. in the past 3 years, I have been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, Lupus SLE, and Relative Polychthaemia, I am asking my GP about the ADHD, but have not had this sorted yet. I spent most of my teenage years trying to catch up with my peers and not understanding why I was failing. I then spent all my adult working life, failing at several jobs, and relationships, and currently going through medical redeployment due to severe fibromyalgia. I am hoping to find an escape to better understand my situation and any help to regain my employability and get assessed for ADHD? I emailed my GP twice as I promptly forgot to add the ADDitude questionnaire in my first email 64 of 72 Autism questions. it's only an indicator. I hope I can finally find a place to be and find respect and understanding. I hope I can connect with similar people my age and hope to gain some advice and help.