Mental health

Strawberry1

Your welcome @Catherine21

Jane315STARX

@Catherine21 Yes fifi is irreplaceable and because she was that special she has left a huge hole in your life.It represents though how much you filled her life.Because you obviously shared such a close bond,you are missing that connection.I think they ( our dogs are still around us when they pass although we can't see them).I'm not sure if you've felt her presence at all? Perhaps its too soon.She will always be part of you because you were chosen for her in some way.I know that your heart utterly feels like stone right now.And for this instance no words have strength.So keeping yourself busy even with things that may seem pointless will get you through another day X

Jane315STARX

@Strawberry1 nothing has to be final,Decisions can be changed.Text messages can be written.We can all make mistakes in our lives and say things we don't mean.If you think someone or something is worth fighting for then only you know.But I wouldn't beat yourself up over anything.Life is all about changing your mind over things.X

Catherine21

My dad said she was sent to me and she was i had a purpose she was so clever so clever I have pixie and im very grateful 🙏 I had fifi from 8 weeks old she had an amazing life I have no regrets not one I treated her like a princess im lost I beleive shes all around me I did keep myself busy for 6 weeks hit a wall but thankyou for kind words

Strawberry1

Sending lots of empathy and compassion your way @Catherine21

Catherine21

Thankyou strawberry x

Chris75_

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1080572#Comment_1080572

I had no idea that made one thirsty. A couple of tins of something cold would do the trick. 🥤

Strawberry1

Thank you @Jane315STARX ,

I appreciate your support

Strawberry1

You are a true star @Jane315STARX

Strawberry1

Your very welcome @Catherine21

Please take care

Strawberry1

Thanks for the support given

Im very grateful

Strawberry1

Still not feeling good

Wish i was stronger

Strawberry1

Cant be a burden here anymore

Its not right

Jane315STARX

I think you just need gentle reassurance that you are very much not a burden.We will continue to let you know that you are not a burden.Its not my place to say this forum is for you as it doesn't belong to me but I think it is for everyone in the best of times and the worst of times

Jane315STARX

Also I am probably just as stubborn as you @Strawberry1.So I understand completely your mood of self defeated mode and need for affirmation.Sometimes we all just need to be heard,listened to and valued.You can Obviously continue to write how you feel.My thoughts will still be the obvious fact that you are not a burden or I myself for example wouldn't have replied to your messages.You sound like a lovely person who is like many of us suffering in one way or another.Sending hugs X

Strawberry1

Thanks @Jane315STARX

Strawberry1

I wish i could talk to my friend .

I wish things hadnt gone wrong

Im too blame and i feel so very sad

Strawberry1

Cant stop crying

Strawberry1

Sorry everyone

Strawberry1

Just feeling rubbish

I will be ok eventually