The texts stopped when I met men and they left me on read. Does that count as ghosting? — Scope | Disability forum
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The texts stopped when I met men and they left me on read. Does that count as ghosting?

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Splatmate24
Splatmate24 Community member Posts: 380 Courageous
There have been a variety of ghosting that some men have just shown me, and I have also moved one. After meeting up with some men in real life, I think I've been ghosted since they stop texting me and don't reply. My reading has been left on. I did a pattern with the same men that meetup in Liverpool. I'm guessing age doesn't matter in that section. I might be wrong . What do you think is more like a ghost? i move on to someone new . They were also met on Badoo, an online dating app. Usually, I thought older men or women should know better, but I'm wrong in this case. or they could be busy or could found someone else . that i think that happen to me one before .with one men that kept making up excuse and i'm sorry i been very busy . i think he was also texting more then one person and that now didn't work out him but went back to texting me after i lose interest and move on from on different men but men think ghost me after the meetup . now l'm back at the started again . texting a new men is is 31 year old . the men that did meetup with 33 year old 

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  • Splatmate24
    Splatmate24 Community member Posts: 380 Courageous
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    @Purrrrrrr i through i already tried groups and social events and just found men that already has girlfriend . a underage men that underage of  alcohol . very rude and very cocky . men  always trying to sit at me . i even ask my friend and they got none that knew they are single . other guys i wasn't interested since they seem very loud or just seem very immature when i try some groups and social events .

  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,978 Disability Gamechanger
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    Oh no @Splatmate24. It really does not sound like you have had the best time with any of this  :(
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