Is there a reason why I seem to attract a lot of bad men and prefer to have one good man?

Splatmate24

  A number of guys have contacted me first to compliment my looks on dating apps. While I'm ok with a bit of complimenting on my looks, I prefer to compliment my personality and clothes instead of just my looks. . I'm ok with being compliment about shoes to. I did get a lot of compliments about just about looks and that can get very annoying. This has happened to inRL as well as online dating. It has happened to more online dating. I would assume if men kept complementing  about just looks, they might be interested in sex. I would prefer to be viewed as hot women but would prefer to be taken seriously and don't want to get in a relationship with one of men. That has traits are repecful, open commutation, trustworthy, ask questions and be honest from the start. Yep i'm getting a lot attention's from men in rl .if i at social events for learning disabilities but not be attracted to some men there. Some were again too old for men that didn't look old. The last guys that met at a social turned out the age was 42 and my mum did pick up and take my phone number. I was the one that asked and he asked about to meetup for coffee on Saturdays of last oct. But it's nice to chat to a friend. Unfortunately, I can't make Saturdays. I was busy at that time. That one player did also message me on different dating sites quite a lot of XXXX. I did block. I seem to be more attracted to bad men but would prefer to only have one real good guy instead. Why do you get more attention from bad men and players that I'm not interested in dating or being in a relationship with at all? What are the reasons for getting attention from one player? That I did block or swipe left on dating apps. Is there a reason why I seem to attract a lot of bad men and prefer to have one good man? Is there a reason why I seem to attract a lot of bad men and prefer to have one good man?

Albus_Scope

Heya @Splatmate24 dating apps can be a total minefield can't they? 
I think people tend to compliment looks more on dating sites first, as it's so hard to compliment someone's personality after just seeing a profile with a bit of information. That kind of compliment can often come later.