What is better way of into a long term relationship if online dating hasn't work very well?

Splatmate24
Splatmate24 Online Community Member Posts: 411 Contributor
  • Online dating hasn't work for finding a long term relationship and my own experience I been unlucky with online dating and sometimes my own experience with previous relationship being cheated and has a previous toxic relationship. I could be attracted to one guy that I saw a at adult gaming and the games I was playing on a video game called just dance 2024 . I go to other social events in real life but so far other guys hasn't caught my attention at all. I stop going online dating and has be on break.

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  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,496 Scope Online Community Coordinator
    Hi @Splatmate24, it sounds like what you're doing is great. It can take a long time to meet someone you like who likes you back, so hopefully if you keep going to these events when you can you'll find someone you feel good about eventually. It's annoying that it takes so long, but sometimes it's nice just to meet different people and find out more about them. And the events can be fun too even if you don't meet anyone.

    Did you manage to talk to the person you were attracted to when you were playing Just Dance?
  • Splatmate24
    Splatmate24 Online Community Member Posts: 411 Contributor
    @Rosie_Scope i met quite a few people but some them were just friends until i find the adult gaming event through online from college . didn't noticed anyone until the last Thursday  i noticed a guy that i could be attracted but did tried to say hello but end up smiling at one guy then i went on holiday and now back from holiday . is different town from my town .
  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,496 Scope Online Community Coordinator
    @Splatmate24, that sounds good. Do the gaming events happen more than once or is it just a one time thing? Perhaps you'll see them again another time.
  • Splatmate24
    Splatmate24 Online Community Member Posts: 411 Contributor
    @Rosie_Scope is happen more then one on every Thursday and  by a charity that also  have disco to . 
  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,496 Scope Online Community Coordinator
    That sounds fun @Splatmate24, maybe you'll meet the same people each time you go and can get to know them better :)
  • Splatmate24
    Splatmate24 Online Community Member Posts: 411 Contributor
    @Rosie_Scope  it can depends if same people there or not . my mum said not expect anything with guys . i already knew to expect anything from guys