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strangled (Domestic violence)

coldcustomer

I met a man afterf years off abuse at 12 then at 29 meet a man, he moved into my home cut all my furnitue up than started to strangle me beat me were my face was int reconised, but i thogh he love me he bite me alover my body spit on me but i still dint tell, i got away ,, i int told no one apart from polic about this. im so alone and scared. sorry sbout spelling .. i int bright. i just want to be alone and safe in my home and not to worry about pip or stuff.. hope somone out there hears me god bless

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coldcustomer

im 59 now

No love no comfort rthis took a lot to tell. sorry abit spelling Heath

coldcustomer

surfygoose

sorry to hear you have been through all of that. Do you live somewhere safe now?

coldcustomer

yes, i got away after 15 years off him finding me nd smashing my home up and me, i heard he is in prison after setting fire to a women house .. im safe…\\\\god bless to u for answering me . sorry bout spelling. \thank u xx

coldcustomer

want som one to hold me i. tell me its ok

coldcustomer

pls talk to me som one

coldcustomer

im in so much pain

coldcustomer

Thank you for help ? no one. answerd me im lone again with my memeries and pain. i don't want to be this way

coldcustomer

why is no one here to talk too

coldcustomer

give up

poppy123456

Help and advice is being given on your other thread here.

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/120167/need-help-pls

surfygoose

I’m glad you got away. That’s terrible he managed to go on and harm someone else the same. That’s good that he finally went to prison.

Don’t worry, no one is ignoring you. I can’t see where it says what time posts were posted but I think perhaps you posted them late at night which is absolutely fine, but that’s probably the only reason you didn’t get replies quickly. I had gone to sleep after I replied to your post the first time and only saw your other posts this morning.

how are you feeling today? Do you enjoy the sunshine?

coldcustomer

Thank you for listening to me.

surfygoose

That’s ok. It’s a friendly forum. Do you have any weekend plans? We are filling the paddling pool up in the garden because it looks like lots of hot weather on the way.

coldcustomer

A pool wow wee. sounds like great fun. I'm just gonna sit in the garden and gather my thoughts. Thank you for your message it means a lot to me God bless xx

surfygoose

That’s nice you have a garden to sit in. Yes we are lucky having our pool. Although it’s a paddling pool it’s a really big one and can fit lots of us in.

what else do you like doing? Watching TV, reading, crafts?

Adrian_Scope

Hi @coldcustomer,

Thank you so much for sharing your story. It's incredibly brave of you to open up about what you've been through, and I'm so glad to hear that you're now safe.

It's completely understandable that you feel scared and alone after everything you've experienced. You're not alone, though. There are people who care and support services that can help.

You might find it helpful to reach out to Women's Aid (0808 2000 247) or Refuge. They offer confidential support and can provide advice and assistance. Additionally, Victim Support (0808 1689 111) can help you navigate your feelings and offer emotional support.

It's okay to take time for yourself in the garden, gathering your thoughts. Your safety and peace of mind are the most important things right now.

Remember, spelling and grammar don't matter when it comes to expressing your feelings. Just take things one day at a time, and know that there are people and services ready to support you whenever you need it. 🙂

I'm also going to send you an email, so keep a look out for that!

coldcustomer

Thank u

coldcustomer

I think i need to be honest hear as im getting worse the memories. I was from a very abusif family always mom drank had affairs screaming shouting till 4 5 clock every night so i didnt go to school i sleeped in the woods. Than at 12 i was took by my freinds uncle he tied me up and i remember a camera at end of the bed he then dumped me by some super market bins. i walked home only to be ignorned .. not ask where you been for 8 hours.. sorry abou spelling im not bright. God bless