still having problem with my mum to and still seem to be issues going on still.

Katiedimelow20

hey I’m okay certain times but I always seem to really angry or sad around my mother. Can be very restricted when comes to dating . I have noticed that I feel out of sort and my mum seem to make is worst. I’m not has best relationship with my mum . I just want to be let alone without dealing with her every single day . I don’t have good relationships with my younger sister since seem to get more attention from my mum and don’t restricted . Dating and talking about menstrual Heath cycles . I was put on birth control pill for 5 years and half but didn’t do much with my emotions. Did has some side effects . I got off the birth control pill . Did get withdrawal bleeding first . Then my first period after stopping was on late and was bit on short side . Next period was very long. I’m waiting to see how the 3rd period when is does come.I’m not sure where to put in option. If did put in wrong. I’m sorry

Rosie_Scope

Hi @Katiedimelow20, sorry you're still having a tough time dealing with your mum. It's not easy to live with another person when you don't always get along, and sometimes dealing with hormone changes at the same time can make it even harder.

Does she leave you alone if you go to your bedroom? Maybe if you feel like you're starting to get angry at her you could go and sit somewhere quiet on your own.

I hope your periods settle down soon. It can take a few months for them to go back to normal after coming off birth control. Have you been seeing your GP to help you manage them?

Katiedimelow20

@Rosie_Scope my mum doesn't leave me alone when i in my bedroom most of the times . my mum already been through menopause and not had any period . i think i did get post pill syndrome . not see any other GP since is very difficult to get a appointment and is has be a certin times to blocked the appointment but my mum never seem to blocked GP appointment . went to different doctors . both were women docter but did tried but didn't work for one docter did give me Tranexamic acid first but didn't work but did make my period heavy . i did had can heavy period before Tranexamic acid and did has irregular cycle and period . then next did get on birth control pill Rigevidon but did hate it and the last one birth control pill was

Microgynon 30 . did kept bleeding after having breaks from them . did get side effect sore breast, anxiety , mood swing . did also seem very angry to . I'm not on any form of birth control pill but seem to have mood swing still .

Rosie_Scope

That sounds hard to deal with @Katiedimelow20. It can be normal to have some mood swings during your cycle, but if they feel extreme and you're having other symptoms that are difficult to manage, it's worth speaking to the doctor again to see if they can help you.

I know it's difficult to talk to your mum a lot of the time and sometimes she doesn't listen, but perhaps on a day when you're both feeling calm you could ask her nicely if you could have a rule where she doesn't come into your bedroom when you have the door shut. Then if you're feeling angry or sad you can have somewhere to go to relax without your mum.

Fingers crossed you start to feel better soon.

Katiedimelow20

@Rosie_Scope yep we did had rules about knocking on doors but did forget to knock . i'm not sure but my mum also comes with me when comes to doctors and doctors hasn't be easy for me . i will tried but still face issue with my mum .

Katiedimelow20

Update . been still having issue with my mum about that i do not want go back pill but tried another option for birth control . still ended shutting me up again when i was talking about birth control .

Rosie_Scope

Sorry to hear that your mum shut you up @Katiedimelow20. It's good that you've got an idea of what you'd like to do with your birth control though.

Maybe you could ask to make an appointment with your GP to discuss your options?

Katiedimelow20

@Rosie_Scope i can't even make my own  appointment. my mum always make my docter

 appointment.

Jimm_Alumni

Hey @Katiedimelow20, are you not able to contact the doctor yourself? The GP staff should generally be able to speak with you and book an appointment for you unless there is something else?

Katiedimelow20

@Jimm_Scope nope I can't contracted any doctor's for myelf and is always has be my mum that will always contract my doctors .

Albus_Scope

Heya @Katiedimelow20 just checking, have you tried contacting the doctor yourself before?

Katiedimelow20

Albus_Scope nope I'm not tried contacting the doctors since my mum Wil not let me .

Katiedimelow20

Update and still seem to getting annoyed or angry around my mum still and kept repeating same thing when I'm already doing things .

Rachel_Scope

Hi @Katiedimelow20. I'm sorry you're still struggling around your mum. Is there anything you can do to distract yourself and have some time to yourself?

Katiedimelow20

@rachel_scope A bit but can't get much alone time at all yet. I can get sometime alone time more at house but not . Still repeating things like holding hands when I didn't want to .

Rachel_Scope

I'm sorry you can't get much alone time yet. I hope you're able to get more soon. Make the most of what little alone time you have if you can. Do whatever makes you happy and that can be your escape for a little while 😊

Katiedimelow20

@Rachel_Scope it took a bit of time to reply since is already been the worst day today , i hate football and i hate hot weather . my mum did shove me out of the way . i told her off again and accuse me of being angry and bored . i can't wait to be back in the uk again .

Katiedimelow20

Update is getting worst now . my mum now counting always comes in when i'm showering or about to get change into clothes . my mum seem to dismissed my emotion on my face and trying to express them more . I'm upsets and angry when comes to only mum . still has same problem about always with my mum no matter what I'm doing . going out to social event my mum will comes with me . same thing with dates . feeling like has to verbal fight around me . music is sometimes is can work .