Having bad nights.

SunflowerValley
SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

I am currently struggling at night with sleeping. I am currently unable to wear my ventilator at night when I go to sleep. As a result, I am waking up a lot (sometimes every hour or not even an hour), having a nightmare most times that I fall asleep throughout the night, and I'm waking up with huge headaches (sometimes from bad dreams as well). My nightmares are really bad and as a disabled user who can't get out of bed on their own, I'm struggling and scared to fall asleep. I just want to have a good night sleep.

I'm really tired and sad at the minute as I haven't had a good night sleep in over a week or two. If I wake up from a bad dream then I never want to go back to sleep as I'm scared but have to if it is really early and so I don't have a nap.

I'm not able to go back to college at the minute as their facilities aren't working that I need to be there, I don't do much in the day, and I'm struggling with loads of issues from family, appointments, boredom, and other things.

I'm scared to go to sleep every night because of my nightmares I have. Even as a child I have always hated going to sleep. Instead of asking to stay up later as I got older, I used to ask how early I could wake up. But now I stay up later because I'm scared of going to sleep.

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  • JF7891
    JF7891 Scope Member Posts: 131 Empowering

    I have similar problems with my sleep apnoea and hey fever. Im also super scared of sleeping, due to my hyperphantasia, i feel the dreams even more intensively, and doesnt help that my grandad died in his sleep when i was 8.

  • JF7891
    JF7891 Scope Member Posts: 131 Empowering

    I always keep a really good light on at night

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    I can't sleep without a light unless my family sleep with me.

    I'm so sorry to hear about your health issues and your grandad.

  • 400charlotte
    400charlotte Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener

    maybe talk to the doctor, they might be able to give you something to sleep.

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    Yeah, I just want to have something right with me. Instead of having loads of health issues and everything else in my life right now that has gone wrong.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 11,147 Championing

    Hi @SunflowerValley I am sorry you are finding it so difficult to sleep. I think having a word with your doctor would be a good idea. You could perhaps mention that you are also unable to use your ventilator at night. Please take care of yourself.

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    Hi @Bluebell21 Yeah, we have mentioned the ventilator and it should hopefully have a humidifier in by the end of this week so I don't get nose bleeds (that is the reason I can't have it on). I will, hope you are okay.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 11,147 Championing
    edited September 2024

    I am not too bad thanks @SunflowerValley

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    Good. Hope you have a good day tomorrow.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 11,147 Championing

    Thank you and you. @SunflowerValley I hope you manage some sleep tonight.

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    Thank you @Bluebell21, me too. I hope I don't have any nightmares tonight.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 11,147 Championing

    Fingers crossed @SunflowerValley

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    Goodnight @Bluebell21

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 11,147 Championing

    Good night @SunflowerValley

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,711 Championing

    @SunflowerValley
    Sorry you’ve been having trouble sleeping I hope you have a night free off nightmares and get a good sleep.

    Goodnight ❤️

  • JF7891
    JF7891 Scope Member Posts: 131 Empowering

    You know having headaches due to weather changes and pressure changes is a huge cause of headaches, i get them like that as well so did my ex-wife and plenty others i know. And thats when i know to take painkillers right away and before bed so that i dont get forced to wake up with headaches! Seriously the weather changed dramatically recently!

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 11,147 Championing

    Good morning @SunflowerValley I hope you have a good day today and managed some sleep without nightmares last night. Take care.

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    Good morning @Lou67, thank you. I actually didn't have too bad of a night. Woke up once in at 6am and maybe another time but no nightmares. 😊❤️

    Good morning @JF7891, yeah. They are so painful and it hurts all over my head, the back of my neck, and sometimes my eyes. But I woke up a few times but no nightmares, and a not that painful headache that is barely there.

    Good morning @Bluebell21, thank you. I only woke up once or twice, but it was after 6am so nearly a full nights sleep. And I had no nightmares and only woke up to a small headache.

    💜

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,711 Championing

    @SunflowerValley
    Good morning aww I’m so pleased you had a decent sleep and great you had no nightmares hopefully you’ll feel better for it enjoy your day.

    ❤️

  • fijihems
    fijihems Online Community Member Posts: 10 Listener

    I believe your GP should be able to give you some medication to enable you sleep at night.