I asked a friend who is a tribal member what the Abenaki word for "disabled" was.
She said "uh, we don't have one really, there is one we kind of use, but it's more about the person getting services than anything about them, or like, needing an adapted toilet…"
What followed was an interesting discussion. I do Native American storytelling and all the stories I know that include disability are positive and uplifting…
In many of the stories, the person is found to be "out of harmony" not because of whatever physical or mental impairment they might have, but because of the pressures others might have put upon them. A ritual would be undertaken to bring harmony- not to resolve the impairment, but to make the statement to the community (and the person) that they were central to the community. The ritual is about people encircling the individual and offering support and acceptance. Respect is very important- and respecting a person isn't based on a view of their worth- as all people are worthy.
Anyway… I will be posting some stories. I do talks for schools and organisations, and people are always so shocked that the focus of the stories are often either that the disabled person is gifted by their difference, or to be held in high regard for their perseverance and resilience, but never pitied or seen as "less".
One part of a story relates to a man with a badly scarred face due to being burned, he also had a stroke and moved in jerky motion. One woman, a beautiful wise woman, says she can see the world in his being, all his experiences, and asks him to tell her all he has learned… she marvels at his courage and strength. He is an exceptional weaver and makes beautiful, unique items that are in high demand because when his arm jerks, instead of seeing it as a mistake, he accepts it as beauty. In time, they become partners- and when a stranger asks why she as a beautiful woman has taken on such an imperfect man- she says "I see no imperfections, I see only evidence of a life lived fully, completely, and without surrender- how could I not love him?" It is not condescending… it's respect.
Attached is a really nice academic paper about how disability is viewed …
https://lewiscar.sites.grinnell.edu/HistoryofMedicine/uncategorized/everything-in-nature-goes-in-curves-and-circles-native-american-concepts-of-disability/