I have called social services

Jane315STARX
Jane315STARX Online Community Member Posts: 1,016 Championing
in Families and carers

I have actually called social services now and am waiting for them to call me back for their advice on this whole situation on my son because its totally out of control now.I am unsure what to do.CAMHS dont know what to do.The school dont know what to do and now im forced into a situation of communication with my mum who is a narcissist

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  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,350 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Sorry to hear it's come to that @Jane315STARX, but I hope they'll be able to support you both and offer some practical advice about what to do next. It sounds like a very complicated situation and a lot to deal with on your own. Thinking of you!

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,036 Championing

    I hope Social services can get you the help you need @Jane315STARX .

    Sending load of empathy and compassion your way

    We are all rooting for a good outcome for you .

    Thinking of you at this difficult time

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 599 Empowering

    I'm sorry Jane, you've had a lot to deal with lately.

    Best wishes

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Online Community Member Posts: 1,016 Championing

    The head of year said he actually made a referral to them yesterday too.So im still waiting for them to call back and when my son comes home I need to tell him how furious I am that he's lied and I know about it

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,036 Championing

    So sorry to hear you have so much to deal with @Jane315STARX .

    Hopefully the social services will be in touch soon .

    We all want a good outcome for you

    We are all behind you with this .

    Best wishes always

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Online Community Member Posts: 1,016 Championing

    So basically they didnt call back.My son came home and threatened to kill himself so I phoned nhs 111 and got through to the wrong area.Anyway after having to call back ( they dont transfer) I finally got through to a nurse who spoke to my son and didn't really understand the situation he's been going through ( not her fault).Conversation ended after 30 mins with her suggestion that if I think he's going to do anything this evening to take him to A and E.Its been such a nightmare last 2 weeks.My narc mum is constantly phoning now ( which obviously I understand, and I know we have to communicate over this situation) .but she is blaming me,bringing up past situations ( which of course I actually laugh about in my head because I recognise all how Highly narcissistic everything she is saying is.But its relentless and is tough whilst dealing with this.Talk about kicking someone when they are down.So if I can get through this then anything is possible.Thank God for HRT

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