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You cannot change the path of destiny

Jane315STARX

All this time ive been fighting so hard for support and reading back over my own posts and notes I realise that this has been going on for 15 months.Its now obvious to me that there is obviously a greater power going on that simply defines my future path.So I am no longer going to do anything about anything as this it seems is how it's supposed to be

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Ross1975

I know exactly what you mean. My earliest memory of things feeling like this was when I were 5 years old, I'm now 50, it's like the Universe or reality is always against me, like I'm cursed. Anything that I really want to happen, that's very important to me and will be great for my well being and will make me happy, it's like I always get blocked from it, like whatever it takes to stop it from happening will happen, no matter how unlikely, like it's orchestrated.

Jane315STARX

I think we live in a busy world now where we dont individually mean anything to anyone.Unless you have a strong family unit or friends that you can count on then you have nothing ( im speaking only for myself and how I see it).Every medical professional is mindful of their position and how it is reflected when there has been failures ( for eg).But in the scheme of things it really means nothing as we mean nothing and when you realise the inevitability of it all it makes you realise just what a waste of time so many years have been.

SmellyBin

'and he's says to say Today is my peaceful day no one can ruin my peace but me' @Catherine21

Interesting piont, Catherine! But isn't this a bit much of responsibility to put upon one's shoulders? At least I am finding it really hard to treat myself exactly like this, not to ruin my own peace… of course I am far from being a monk.

I quite like this for a starting point of self-compassion, yet… aren't we all being pushed into thinking certain things by our surroundings, society? Shaping our thoughts and feelings? I am not saying there is nothing we can do, but being this kind to ourselves as the monk in your example, wow, I envy him. Am I making sense?

SmellyBin

You're saying it ever so nice, @Catherine21 - about us all being one. Not a lot of people truly understand or even see that. Somehow we often end up talking about what separates us from one another, whether it is people, plants, animals… Indeed, we were never meant to live like this, apart from the outside world with all its fresh air and lovely birds sounds, but also us being disabled or chronics being categorized as different… sigh. I am so glad we can at least talk about this. Btw, have you heard of the book Forest Euphoria? Might be something for you. 🌿

rubin16

Yeah we're not meant to live the way society makes us live today, the current world is set against us, for perminent failure. Its the reason why mental health and depression is so high. The food we eat is full of artificial things mainly to keep consumers coming back for more and is profit based. The water we drink isn't natural (full of flouride) or perservatives, too much flouride is known to cause lower IQ and brain function and shrinks the pineal gland in the brain. Yet we still put flouride in our toothpastes and water supply.

Life is too much full of money and greed, life instead should be about sharing resources, having natural food and drink that doesn't harm anyone. Have adequete housing for everyone and the ability to enjoy life without the constant worry about money.