Hi, my name is weallneedafriend!

weallneedafriend
weallneedafriend Community Member Posts: 1 Listener

Sometimes it's hard to make friends when people hate you right after looking at you

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  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 4,842 Championing

    Hi @weallneedafriend welcome to the Community. I hope you enjoy your time on the forum. Any questions just ask.

    It is very judgemental of people if they dislike you just on how you look.

    We are a friendly and supportive forum so have a look around and join in when you are ready.

    Take care.

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 4,221 Online Community Team

    Hi @weallneedafriend and welcome to the community. I'm so sorry you've been through this. Do you want to tell us a bit more about what you've experienced?

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 5,209 Championing

    @weallneedafriend

    Hi welcome to the community.

  • justsaying2025
    justsaying2025 Community Member Posts: 82 Contributor

    Hi @weallneedafriend

    It can be hard at times, I often feel like a square peg in a round hole. The local DV group I tried, I didn't fit in. An internet type 'friend' group, they weren't my people. I think I'm most probable ND and my directness can offend some. I've come to the realisation that I'd far rather be me & if that's not for you then we're likely not a good fit. I do think that people who are less secure/evolved/healed are often the ones who dislike people who are different to them. Personally, I think it's part of the rich tapestry of life & I love meeting people who are different to me. Sending best wishes.

  • SmellyBin
    SmellyBin Community Member Posts: 593 Empowering

    What a lovely username you've chosen! Indeed, we all need a friend and the world can do with my friendliness, methinks.

    I hope you find some nice company here and you're doing okay today :) Anything you like to share about yourself?