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Do You Find It Hard To Forgive People Who've Abused You?

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Angelstar59 Member Posts: 3 Listener

April 2017

its very hard to see the other side what prompt a person to behave this way. do not try to forgive others but forgive yourself for judging what you cannot know.

Namaste. In love and light may blessings shower your day.
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