been scared of males

m45yrs

i was mentally tormented by males im having hard time dealing with that scared of going to counceling i wish i could chat to others about it it would help me

Hart86

😟 really sorry @m45yrs from reading around it’s definitely something a few of us on the forum have in common 😟

charlie79

I have that to. I housebound and have to have home visits which can only be female. This makes getting help more complicated and complexed due to resources

April2018mom

Please see a therapist. This is serious if not treated. 

charlie79

I am this will unfortunately with my past and what happened will always be the case. Therapy helps me cope day to day

charlie79

Sorry read last post thought person was commenting to me just realised it was yours. She is right. Therapy may not cure your fear but help your coping mechanisms. You should have therapy and you can request a female. I am housebound so had to wait longer. But if you can go out of your house with support there is more increase in availability. Good luck and give it a try. 

charlie79

Have you enquires or been offered councilling. The first steps are hardest but your a brave one

m45yrs

my dream job is to be a chef love cooking but i need to sort myself out first

charlie79

You can do that. Just take your time little steps little journeys and you will get there

m45yrs

thank you for all your positive comments it does help me

m45yrs

feel free to comment im not alone 

Adrian_Scope

Hi @m45yrs. I just wanted to say welcome to the community. It's great to have you with us. I hope talking about this with people here will help give you the confidence to go to counselling.

Please let us know if there's anything we can do to support or advise you.

Hart86

Definitely not alone @m45yrs!!

April2018mom

How are things today OP?