Hi, my name is cakey!

cakey

I have cold, heart failure, ms and chronic lung disease. I have a suprapubic catheter which I have had for 5 years and this embarrasses me

zakblood

welcome to the forum

cakey

Thankyou

cakey

I have a suprapubic catheter. I find it very embarrassing when people find out. I struggle with fashionable clothes and starting new relationships so awkward and embarrassing. Does anyone else go through this

Connie00

Hello @cakey 

I understand what you must be going through, please remember this is not your fault you have a Medical Condition that does not allow for high fashion, and if people don't understand that's their problem not yours. as for new relationships tell them from the start, if the can't handle it then they are not the right supportive person you need in your life.  i really do understand how you feel, 

emmarenshaw

Hello @cakey , welcome to the community. We're all here should you need our support.

cakey

Thanks guys

cakey

Thankyou, you really boosted me up x

Connie00

we are always here to support you whenever we can,  remember only one important fact in your life, and that is you, embrace your situation as much as you can take control of it, and don't let it control you.

Adrian_Scope

Hi @cakey and welcome!

Ails

Hi @cakey and welcome to the Community.  It is nice to meet you and thank you for sharing with us.  I can appreciate how difficult things must be for you and as the others have said, we are all here to support you should you need it.  You will find us to be a very friendly bunch!  So please feel free to talk to us anytime as there will always be someone to listen.  If we can be of any help/support to you then please just give us a shout.  All the best.