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I am Baz and I am 41 years old with cerebral palsy which is a phyiscal disabled I am in a power wheelchair and use a speaking aide to. I am gay man. 10 years ago I met a man on web, he came to meet me we got married I loved him, but I knew thing wasnt right between us. in 2017 I put me out of my house, then I find he wasnt tell the true, will I find love

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  • woodbine
    woodbine Community Co-Production Group Posts: 7,132 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi Baz sorry to hear that, hope you're doing ok now? I believe there's someone special out there for all of us.
    Be extra nice to new members.
  • Bazalad
    Bazalad Member Posts: 21 Connected
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     My name is Baz I am 41 years old i got cerebral palsy which is a phyiscal disabillity i am in a power wheelchair and user a speaking aide too. About ten years ago I was going to the Issca conference over in Span to tell my story so far my using my SL40 Lightwrighter which is a Communication aide. Three months before I went to do this I went on to a gay chat room and I met a man he was 15 years an myself, we full in love. as soon I came back from the world meeting where was great he came an meet me and moved in, but no one was happy but I have a mind over my own five married late we was married, I was liked no matter what my man say he was right, liked when I am at home I move around on my bum sometime he would pull me a long by the legs liked a dog or pull my head up and down. in 2017 I told me leave then I find out everything he told me wasnt the true, why I am so mad.

  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Posts: 8,552

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    Hi @Bazalad. I noticed you posted on your status that you also felt like he was brainwashing you. I'm really sorry it ended so badly and has made you worried about relationships and whether you'll find love. 
    Do you mind if I ask, when you said he would pull you along by your legs, were you happy with this? If not, have you thought about reporting it?

    It might be worth you getting in touch with Broken Rainbow to discuss how you're feeling.
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