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Bowel issues sorry

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Hi to all

I went out this morning on the bus to go shopping when I got their I thought I need the loo so went 🙃 and my bowel erupted messed loo up my clothes everything toilet wouldn't even flush)
Washed my hands ✋️ and heard the toilet cleaner say who's been in their so I said sorry it was me I have a bowel condition it was like she was saying I did it on periods I have no bowel control) she said she would sort it I am really annoyed if they had done my colostomy sooner I wouldn't be in this embarrassing mess.

Had to go home and get cleaned up
What can I do to get my operation done quicker.

Sparklebright63

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  • Biblioklept
    Biblioklept Community member Posts: 4,726 Disability Gamechanger
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    Have they given you a date for your operation? 
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Scope Posts: 12,504 Disability Gamechanger
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    I'm sorry to hear that happened @Sparklebright63, as I can imagine it was really unpleasant. 

    Have you updated your doctor on how your bowel problems are affecting you? 
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  • Sparklebright63
    Sparklebright63 Scope Member Posts: 182 Courageous
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    Hi to all

    Thankyou for your messages no I don't have a radar key where do I get one from.
    I wasn't expecting to have an accident until it happened I don't get any warning so horrible.
    When I go to the doctors next week I will be having words.

    Sparklebright63.
  • Sparklebright63
    Sparklebright63 Scope Member Posts: 182 Courageous
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    Hi to all,

    I have emailed my mp and they R looking into if I can have my operation earlier phoning me in December to let me know if I can have it done earlier.

    Sparklebright63.
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,912 Disability Gamechanger
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    Hi to all,

    I have emailed my mp and they R looking into if I can have my operation earlier phoning me in December to let me know if I can have it done earlier.

    Sparklebright63.
    Hello @Sparklebright63

    I hope you are feeling ok today?

    I have IBD too and had ileostomy surgery earlier this year. Have you had your pre-op appointment / assessment yet? A piece of advice I can add on here, is to contact your surgeon's secretary and ask to be put on the cancellation list, if they have one. That is, of course, if you are able to go in at short notice.
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  • Sparklebright63
    Sparklebright63 Scope Member Posts: 182 Courageous
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    Hi there Hannah,

    They R phoning me the 12th of dececember to let me know what happening need heart issue sorting first I am having an angiogram done ASAP.
    No ive not had my Pre assesment done yet

    Sparklebright63
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,912 Disability Gamechanger
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    Hi there Hannah,

    They R phoning me the 12th of dececember to let me know what happening need heart issue sorting first I am having an angiogram done ASAP.
    No ive not had my Pre assesment done yet

    Sparklebright63
    Hi @Sparklebright63

    Will be keeping my fingers crossed for you on the 12th that they are able to give you more information / hopefully a date! 🤞 and then once the heart issue is sorted, you can get a date for your operation :) 
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