What can you do with online dating now that you saw a guy lying about being single?

Splatmate24

I also lied to one guy who did lie about being single. I did find out he did have a girlfriend through a social media site called Snapchat, and I blocked him after I found out he had a girlfriend. The girlfriend did hack into his Snapchat and start spamming chat. I will also block users if they aren't single. I knew he wasn't single, so I wouldn't have to wait, but I did move on to someone new, and I made sure the new guy was single for real this time. I was also lied to by some other guys. Did you get that the fake nice guys acted to get someone in return? I have also been lied to by some girls as well. I don't have many girls as friends since I had bad experiences throughout college when I did get a lot of attention from guys and had a few relationships, but they ended. Some of them did cheat. Some girls did use my trust to get close to guys with whom I had a relationship in college, and some girls tried to tempt guys to cheat and were successful. I stop dating and having relationships in college and start finding them outside of college. I had two more relationships, but both of them ended. We did not end up together because another guy had more than one girlfriend at the time. The other one ended because the guy did not change into a good person. Now I have nine ex-boyfriends.  

L_Volunteer

This sounds like a really difficult experience for you @Splatmate24, especially finding out people have lied to you and used your trust.

It sounds positive that you did what you needed to do to take care of yourself though – in blocking him and any other users who aren’t single.

How are you feeling about things at the moment? We are all here for you and listening to you if you would like to share more with us 

Splatmate24

@L_Volunteer. I have be ok and  did happen a weeks ago on different dating apps . the guy did ghost after trying to set date up but the day came and is the date didn't happen . i reach out through snapchat and let him know that i couldn't meetup today . left there . then text change to very fast past and kept spamming and did look at his story on snapchat and saw is that his girlfriend hacked into his snapchat and then i did blocked him after that . did found a new guy that i am texting through i got from Facebook dating  and i did ask I'm double checking ,that you don't have a girlfriend and he said why did you ask . just checking to make sure .

durhamjaide2001

I'm sorry this has happened to you