Dating with Cerebral palsy

pooleestar26
pooleestar26 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener
edited September 2021 in Cerebral Palsy Network
Hi my name is Emily and I'm a suffer of cp. What I can't understand is this ... why can't we normally with cp people look at me and think I'm wierd because cp. They can't be bothered to come and talk to me about it then I feel lonely and helpless. Datings difficult for.oeopke with cp because of the age thing but really it matter how old tour friend/partner is because in the end its love and trust that always wins.  
Its 20 times harder for me because I'm lonely see and I need a friend to help me. Please can you help me? 

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  • Ross_Alumni
    Ross_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,611 Championing
    Hi @pooleestar26

    Welcome to the community, thanks for posting, and I'm sorry to hear you have found dating to be a real challenge. 

    It can be deflating when you keep coming across people who aren't accommodating of your condition, but I think if anybody is like that in the first place then you're better off without those people anyway. As you say love and trust always wins and any worthy partner will provide those and won't care that you have CP.

    Have you tried looking on the Outsiders Dating and Social Club? Or any of the other dating sites or apps?
  • pooleestar26
    pooleestar26 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener
    No I havent
  • pooleestar26
    pooleestar26 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener
    Morning Guys! Its 8.03 in the morning and I want to tell you about a dream that I had last night. Lord it was wierd I met this lad and his name was ethan we got along g so well he understood everything that I've been going through with my Cp. He even understood about about my favourite actor Richard Armitage whose been a fantastic support. By the end of it we were together for a year. Xxx Emily  :)
  • Richard_Scope
    Richard_Scope Posts: 3,763 Cerebral Palsy Network
    @pooleestar26 that's a very detailed dream! I'm not familiar with Richard Armitage, what has he starred in?
  • pooleestar26
    pooleestar26 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener
    Spooks, bbc Robin hood, christmas version of the vicar of Dibley 2007,Berlin station all sorts really
  • Richard_Scope
    Richard_Scope Posts: 3,763 Cerebral Palsy Network
    I'll give him a Google :)
  • pooleestar26
    pooleestar26 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener
    Hi @Teddybear12 thankyou for that I will. Hopefully we can stay in touch is Cerebral palsy that you have? Emily 
  • pooleestar26
    pooleestar26 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener
    edited September 2021
     @Teddybear12 Of we can! I know what that's like they look at you and think your wierd and as if you've got no brain in your head .... well guess what thyre wrong and you're daughteris a very special person that deserves someone that'll understand what shes going though. I too have lost friends and I'm struggling to find any with my age group and with the same disability Cerebral palsy.  :) Emily 
  • pooleestar26
    pooleestar26 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener
    @Teddybear12 no they won't accept me now unfortunately and I have been looking around my local area but theres nothing.  :'(
  • Richard_Scope
    Richard_Scope Posts: 3,763 Cerebral Palsy Network
    @pooleestar26, Scope and CP Sport run a virtual cafe for adults with CP. The next one is on the 27th of September. Here is the information: 


    If you would like to join us and say hi, Register at www.cpsport.org/events

    If you have trouble registering for the Cafe, please email me at Richard.Luke@scope.org.uk


     We have now lowered the age range to 20. In response to demand. Sign up and let's chat!



    Really looking forward to seeing you  

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