Okay, here's a concise statement for your Scope forum post, focusing on the emotional impact and timeline after your mother's death:
Subject: Five Years of Neglect After Losing My Mum - Seeking Support
"Five years ago, after the devastating loss of my mum, I succeeded to her tenancy. What followed was a nightmare. The house was completely unsuitable for my needs. Ten years prior, I'd had a full left leg amputation and was wheelchair-bound. The house had no adaptations, no aids, and was essentially inaccessible. I couldn't even get my wheelchair in or out, and there was only a bath, which was impossible for me.
For five years, I battled the council, through legal procedures, the Ombudsman, and even my MP. This fight took me to the brink of a nervous breakdown. Just this week, after years of neglect and countless complaints, they've finally given me a flat. It's not perfect, and it's still not entirely wheelchair-friendly, but it's a huge improvement.
I'm sharing this because I'm still processing the trauma of these past five years. I feel like I've been completely abandoned and ignored. Has anyone else experienced this kind of prolonged struggle after a bereavement, especially with housing issues? I'm looking for support and advice on how to move forward and recover from this ordeal. Thank you."
Key considerations:
- Emotional Impact: You've clearly expressed the emotional toll this has taken, which is crucial for connecting with others on the forum.
- Timeline: The statement effectively outlines the five-year struggle, highlighting the duration of your ordeal.
- Focus on Bereavement: By emphasizing the loss of your mother, you add a layer of vulnerability and highlight the added difficulty of navigating these issues while grieving.
- Conciseness: The statement is to the point, making it easier for others to read and understand your situation.
- Open Question: you have asked for support, and opened a door for people to reply.
Remember, you're not alone, and sharing your experience can be a powerful step towards healing and finding support.
