Struggling mum

marcia711
marcia711 Community Member Posts: 1 Listener
edited October 14 in Families and carers

17yr old with AUDHD, anxiety, depression.. starting to be a nightmare to live with, he’s struggling mentally & emotionally and so am I, I’m walking on egg shells so I don’t upset him.
mum exhausted as been on my own with him for 15yrs.

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  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 6,493 Championing

    Hi @marcia711 welcome to the Community. I am sorry you are having such a challenging time.

    I have tagged @Mary_Scope who is Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialist.

    Hopefully she will be able to help you.

    Please take care of yourself.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,436 Championing
    edited October 13

    Hello @marcia711 and welcome to Scope 🤗

    Seeking help is the best thing you're doing right now because autism is complicated for everyone. I would describe it as a battle with oneself and a battle with the world and it is exhausting.

    The National Autistic Society (NAS) offers support, information and advice (search for details).

    The Scope forum is a safe space to talk about autism and I hope you enjoy your time here.

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 6,179 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists
    edited October 14

    Hi @marcia711 and a warm welcome to the community from me.

    Thank you for telling us a little bit about your situation. Taking that step to reach out for help and support is huge and we're glad you're here. It sounds like you're both going through a lot at the moment.

    Does your son currently have any support in place at the moment? This could be CAMHS, in school or anything similar?

    Also, do you have any support for yourself right now? Whether that's family, friends or local carer services?