Worrying about my daughter moving out
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oasis45
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Hi I have depression and hidradinitus supportive there is no cure for this. I receive pip care component standard and esa. My daughter helps me with washing applying dressings shipping med cooking etc she is moving out in next to weeks I am so scared how I will manage how can I get some help I need to move from my private rent as it's 3 bedroom and I won't be able to pay the top up now I am trying to apply for a bungelow that has a wet room as can't manage a bath most of the time I am getting super stressed and feel so down any help or suggestions greatly appreciated ty
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Hi @oasis45 welcome to the community.
Your post reminded me of a similar one recently by @shirley60 - https://community.scope.org.uk/discussion/30947/i-am-worried-what-will-happen-to-me-when-my-daughter-moves-out
In this post @DebbieVoakes gives some great advice that might be relevant to you too, she said:
"If you haven't had a care needs assessment recently, it might be a good idea to think about asking for one to take into account that you will be on your own. It might be that you could have an increase in your care package. Your social worker (if you have one) will also be able to let you know what is available in your area in terms of support and provision for hot meals.
If you're living alone and on certain means tested benefits and no-one is claiming Carers Allowance for you, you might be eligible for some extra financial help by way of the Severe Disability Premium. You haven't told us about whether you're getting benefits and which ones but if you would like more information about the extra help available, let me know."
Hope this helps, do join in on other posts in the community, we have a lovely group of people here with lots of different experiences.Scope
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From what you say, sounds like you might need some additional support-as Sam suggested it's worth getting in touch with your local authority social services. Needing support washing is something they would support with.
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Hi @oasis45 I just wondered how you were getting on?
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If I had a magic wand local council swimming pools would also be acessible/adapted bathhouses with private rooms with all modcons, bath versions and wetrooms, and 24hr accessible laundry, or social enterprise would do it, maybe RADAR. Along with help to adapt houses and mental health Haven type places. Our area has a single MH contact number and a place called haven if you need extra support, as well as CMHT/GP, and local community and courses etc. Sometimes this is more than we need. According to us or them. But there's a general move to get people away from going to A&E in crisis. And times that are stressful are indeed stressful.Autistic mother (they/them) not Autism Mom
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