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Why do guys ghost me after a hook up after telling them i’m autistic?
I told a guy that I am on the spectrum after we had sex and he said that he didn’t know that then I haven’t heard from him again. I even told him they could still have sex. Why would he ghost me or any guy ghost me when they find out I’m autistic? You think it’s because of the misconceptions he may have of me? I even told…
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Adjusting to dating and emotions after moving to London for studies
I moved to London from Singapore last year for my studies and honestly, adjusting to life here has been a much bigger experience than I expected. One thing I still feel nervous about is dating. Back home, I was more focused on studies and family life but London feels very different socially. People seem more open and…
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Where do you draw the line between transparency and privacy in a relationship?
If your partner constantly checks your phone, social media, and messages, is that: A. A sign they care about you. B. A sign they don't trust you. Let me hear your thoughts. 👇🔥
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Best dating sites for disabled people (people with Cerebral Palsy)
Hi everyone my name is Jade, I am 30 years old. I have quadriplegic cerebral palsy, tremors & other health problems. I wanted to go make friends and dating but I was worried about where to go as I don't want to be taken advantage of or be in any kind of danger. So does anyone know any particular dating sites which are safe…
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Sex when both are wheelchair bound
Hi I've spoke about this before but it's really becoming an issue. Spoke to his care agency apparently they view as abuse! Eventhough everything i read says they should help. My p.a's are related to me or close friends. Is there anywhere I turn for help and advise
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Hi, my name is HospitalLightbulbDad!
Hey, I’m Robert. I’m exploring an app idea for people with physical disabilities who are dating and I want to understand what’s frustrating about it right now. My wife and I were at the hospital a lot during her pregnancy last year, and I kept seeing a couple there — they both used a wheelchair — who just looked so solid…
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Why is it hard being disabled to find love?
Why is it that people look at disabled people as if we're a burden? I've been single now for 11 years and not one date in that entire time. I've talked to countless people but as soon as they realise my problem they stop talking. I just don't get why people are like that these days. I just find this world so sad and…
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What is more important in a lasting relationship?
Would you stay with someone who is a great partner in every way—loyal, loving, supportive, and trustworthy—but you're no longer physically attracted to them? ❤️ Yes, because love is deeper than looks. 😬 No, because physical attraction is an important part of a romantic relationship. 🤔 It depends on whether the attraction…
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Tips for interable relationship
Hi! I am a woman with a severe disability. Ten years ago, I was very lucky to find a good man who loves me and with whom I share a life. He does not have a disability though and after ten years, some problems are starting to appear. The main issue is that because of my disability, I cannot touch him, caress him or being as…
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'I used a sex surrogate after being bullied for my disability'
From The Mirror By Julia Hunt A guest on This Morning opened up about using a sex surrogate and how it changed everything for him A man who was bullied because of his cerebral palsy has told how he turned to a sex surrogate. James opened up about his experience in an appearance on This Morning, telling the ITV show's…
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Finding a boyfriend
it is so hard to find a boyfriend for adults with learning difficulties and love 4 life is Shut down and i don’t know where to look
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What should I do if I’m autistic and have casual sex and guys ignore my texts?
I am high functioning autistic and they ignore my texts because they are afraid they are going to take advantage of me so I don’t end up having sex and they even go as far as blocking my number. Why do they think like that when it’s not true? I am being serious and not trolling. It’s starting to bother me a lot and I hate…
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I started dating again after becoming physically disabled. Here are my stories
Trigger warning - ableism Source from Irish Times Writer: Sacha Dekker Common denominator in these encounters is a fundamental assumption: disability diminishes desire, desirability, or both. Let’s be very clear about something before I get into this: disabled people have sex. I know, shocking. You’re welcome to take a…
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Wheelchair bound. Is anyone else married and their other half is their carer...
Hey everyone is anyone else married and their other half is their carer how do you separate the 2 from husband/carer. I do get pip but we live off that so I can't afford carers Please I'm open to advice
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Why can’t autistic people have sex with just anyone?
People say they must get to know the guy first so they prevent them from being taken advantage of. How do you prevent the vulnerable from being taken advantage of when it comes to casual sex? Why is it only autistic people and the vulnerable that they need to get to know them before having sex with them meanwhile typical…
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Dating was rough at first and everything fell in place finally 13 years ago
Dating was rough at first, awful. I was taken advantage of a lot and they did cheat on me. It hurt a lot and mom saw I was going through a hard time in my life. Reminded and encouraged me not to give up, will find the right person. I realized she was right and took a break looking things over seeing the mistakes I did.…
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Autism and casual sex?
Why are they so different when it comes to casual sex? Also when they disclose they are autistic to their sexual partner, they block and ghost them. How come? Why is it troublesome for someone autistic to have causal sex? How are they able to have sex if they are shunned from having casual sex?
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Why doesn’t anyone want mentally disabled girls to be promiscuous compared to ot
I noticed that in my experience. And it’s true. Why do you think they don’t want mentally disabled girls to be promiscuous [removed by moderator] but it’s ok for typical girls to be promiscuous [removed by moderator]? For example people think that mentally challenged people have more protection when it comes to being…
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Hi, my name is hadworkingwater! Relationship advice needed
I (36 F)had a conversation with my partner (36 M) over the weekend and I expressed I that I was feeling a little lonely and unwanted the past few weeks, due to always making effort to plan things, never been asked about my day or how I was feeling with flu despite me asking multiple times how we was and trying to make him…
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Why are autistic people treated differently when it comes to impulsivity?
If an autistic person is impulsive sexual wise and is a sex addict why are they treated differently rather than if a typical person was a sex addict?
