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Why does my mom lecture me
She said no normal girl does what you are doing hooking up with random guys you got to have sex with someone you are in a relationship with. She said it’s “wrong” to hook up with random guys and yells at me about it. Is she wrong for lecturing me this much and is she right or wrong? I am 30 and still living with me and on…
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Advice on dating or making friends as a disabled person in the UK?
Hi everyone, I'm new here and based in London. I have [your disability if you want to share, e.g., cerebral palsy / mobility issues / etc.], and I've found it really hard to meet people for friendship or dating. Mainstream apps feel tricky because of judgments or accessibility stuff. Has anyone had success with online…
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Struggling with Breakup /Grief/Isolation
Hi, Myself and my ex partner were together for almost 2 years. We lived together and met in lockdown so the relationship feels like it was a lot longer as we had the boundary of being long distance at the beginning and talked all day every day for months before meeting. This was my longest serious relationship and never…
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Adjusting to dating and emotions after moving to London for studies
I moved to London from Singapore last year for my studies and honestly, adjusting to life here has been a much bigger experience than I expected. One thing I still feel nervous about is dating. Back home, I was more focused on studies and family life but London feels very different socially. People seem more open and…
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VIRGIN ISLAND on Channel 4
Only on Monday and Tuesday evenings for how many weeks I don't know. I didn't watch the first series but this is fascinating! Youngish Brits in a fine location confronting their fears about intimacy.
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think I'm bi
Hi I'm honestly struggling I think I'm bi but don't know how to know what to do 😭
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Is it ok for a guy to want to hook up with a girl that is mentally a teenager?
Or is it frowned upon? Because of a cognitive impairment of borderline intellectual functioning and autism if she is really 30 but is mentally a teenager why would some guys be hesitant to hook up with a girl like that even if she can consent to sex? The disability is borderline intellectual functioning and autism. What…
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What does it mean when my boyfriend jokes about me cheating?
I cheated on him so many times he got mad and now months later he jokes about me cheating on him and when I’m with him he says cheater! Lol and smiles and laughs and says cheating girlfriend!! He says this quite a lot and and also said yesterday I had a girl over and joked around with me saying I had another girl over last…
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Dating...
8 year... I am ready.... dating
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Functional intimacy
Hi Everyone! I’m an Occupational Therapist passionate about supporting disabled people with functional intimacy. Intimacy is an essential activity of daily living, but the practical barriers aren't talked about enough. My goal is to change that by sharing advice on adaptive aids and accessible strategies so that everyone…
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9 years together he wants to split
Hi, I'm 53 my partner is 35. We've been together 9 years. We spoke about the age gap and the possibility of having children when we knew we were heading into a serious relationship. 2 years ago bought a house together. We were previously living mortgage free in my late husband's home. I have cerebral palsy spastic…
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Struggling To Cope With My Husband’s Disabilities
Hello! My husband has been disabled for just over a year now. It started when he had multiple chest infections within 4 months which lead to Pneumonia. He never fully recovered, and after seeing a Neurologist last week, they have now diagnosed him with MS. We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter and this all came about last…
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Getting married problem
me and my Thai fiancée are looking to get married we live in Northern Ireland but she hasn’t got a birth certificate and can’t get it so we can’t get married any advice ?
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Emotionally Torn
I have a girlfriend who I will have been with for 5 years next week. She’s kind and caring and has a good heart. We moved out of her mum’s house and into our own house almost a year ago now and while she’s quiet I feel like she makes the decisions. She has been on two holidays while we’ve been here, she goes out for food…
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Hey guys, I just feel like I want to get something off my chest.
Recently I discovered something about myself, something isn't very nice but it is what it is. I've been single for almost 10 years. I thought I don't need anyone, I'm happy on my own blah blah. But I think in reality, I'm a very lonely man. Because of my disability, I kinda put a gravestone on that part and haven't even…
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Disabled/Neurodivergent dating for a 50 year old male?
Above. A few years ago I attended monthly events with Luv 2 Meet U, run by the company who used to make that "Undateables" TV Show, however they weren't very well organised to say the least, leading to a ton of problems.. I eventually gave up and cancelled the monthly subscription. I've tried to see if it's available again…
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Would Speed Dating be suitable for a 50 year old disabled/neurodiverse adult?
Above. There's a few local events advertised on Google.
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Hi, my name is hadworkingwater! Relationship advice needed
I (36 F)had a conversation with my partner (36 M) over the weekend and I expressed I that I was feeling a little lonely and unwanted the past few weeks, due to always making effort to plan things, never been asked about my day or how I was feeling with flu despite me asking multiple times how we was and trying to make him…
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Dating
Hi everyone I’m 21 years old and have mild cerebral palsy, I’d like to get myself out there and hope it meet someone, I was just wondering if anyone knows of dating apps or any local events that are good for meeting disabled young adults? Thank you!
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Hi, my name is Paul
