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My - Ongoing - relationship with the Outsiders & why I mostly love it
I came across the Outsiders Club, a charity group only slightly older than me, back in 2007. 2 years earlier I'd been seriously ill in hospital with meningitis spent 10 weeks in hospital, lost my memory, my muscles & ability to walk. I'd even forgotten I had a girlfriend that I'd met some years earlier in my Uni days! I'veā¦
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Pride posts - Share your LGBTQIA+ pride š
It's Pride Month! Being any part of the LGBTQIA+ community and also disabled brings a whole bunch of nuance to our experiences both in our pride and the challenges we face. I was asked by an Admin to write something for the community about my experiences and I thought we could start a thread sharing what we are celebratingā¦
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What makes online dating better for short-term relationships than long-term ones?
I'm the same person as splatmate25 users. I didn't want to use anymore. I took a break from it. Starting using the one now . I noticed that there has been an increase in some guys interested in short-term relationships and hookup. It did only happen sometimes on mainstream dating sites/dating apps. I see some of theā¦
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A discovery I made at age 18
A discovery I at age 18 was I was attracted to transgender females too.My wife knows this and she is 100% supportive since she is bisexual liking women too.I was curious,was with a friend and we stopped to see his cousin LeAnn whom is trans.LeAnn and I looked at each other getting closer finally making out kissing.and thenā¦
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Should you give up on online dating and look for a long-term boyfriend instead of online dating?
In my experience, dating apps don't offer a good opportunity for me to find a long-term partner, since I had a bad experience with them and only seem to like the 15% of some men that never going to have tried much comes to have most of the attetion of lot women and I'm not that much interested in 15% and mostly likely toā¦
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Although I am meeting more guys and improving my conversation skills, how can I build relationships?
Ā I have been going out more and social events even with my mother still go with me. I meeting more men and have been talking and getting better but I'm not making much progress With getting into a long-term relationship and building relationship. I had used both online dating which hasn't been much success for building upā¦
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The reason I'm attracted to ginger guys rather than guys with blonde hair or with other common hair?
I'm was attracted to one guy from adult gaming but now I'm noticed that i do not get attracted to one guy. I'm now noticed to two new guys from adult gaming that I hadn't noticed before. I can get turned off for some reason very quickly. The two new guys I said hello to and said my name. He did say his name back to me. Iā¦
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How do I feel about online dating? Was it good before, but now it's bad?
My opinion about online when i did was starting is was good i got to meet a few guys but after i give up since now is very bad and not many users are not interested in long-term relationships. I had started to notice rude and disrespectful users more now that I see online dating sites. I blocked and reported a guy forā¦
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What's a red flag in a person that you would not take ?
Mine is a person being rude to a waiter.
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Can you suggest anything I can do about the fact that I have noticed some guys are texting me more,
hi, I'm name is Caitlin . i been noticed that some guys that i don't text or don't bother to text some guys but seem some guys seem to be texting me more . yet when i did tex some guys they didn't bother to text back that much and wait about more then days to reply or didn't get reply at all . I'm interested in one guy atā¦
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How can I approach a guy I'm attracted to after having a bad experience with my exboyfriends?
I'm maybe attracted to one guy that I saw one time when I was at adult gaming in April on Thursday. I was playing a video game called just dance but didn't noctied until after he was right next to me. Then I did see the guy and did noicted the guy to me. I did try to say hello. I didn't get much chance since I went onā¦
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Deciding to be single and kid free
Just learned one of my mates is gonna be a dad an im still single 34 but I feel like I just don't have the skills to be a dad + two heartbreaksĀ areĀ enough. I always thought it was possible to find "the one" but it's an idea i'm close to resigning, am I right to?
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How to deal with feeling nevous about want to talk to one guy that i'm attrated to ?
Is been a good week this time. I did say bye to one guy that I'm attracted to. I do want to talk more with one guy but I get nervous and shy around him. I have noticed that I seem to be attracted to guys who are shy. as I noctied that I might be getting butterflies with only one guy from adult gaming . Is there any otherā¦
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Are there any reasons why I have been unlucky with online dating and previous relationships inrl?
I been unlucky with online dating and did meetup with some previous guys throughout online dating. One man turned out to be a player and I got turned off very quickly and some other guys did lie about being taken and it was already quickly turned off by guys. Has one guy that wants both a sexual relationship and aā¦
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What is better way of into a long term relationship if online dating hasn't work very well?
* Online dating hasn't work for finding a long term relationship and my own experience I been unlucky with online dating and sometimes my own experience with previous relationship being cheated and has a previous toxic relationship. I could be attracted to one guy that I saw a at adult gaming and the games I was playing onā¦
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I need real opinions....
I would like to discuss the difference in being sneaky and wanting a few minutes to a few hours of serenity. I was told working out, bathing, applying for work applications, and cleaning up when no one is around is being sneaky. I feel it's a form of me time serenity, I can play my music without headphones, I can just haveā¦
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Best dating sites for people with disabilities and 22q
Hello everyone I was just hoping if anyone new what is the best dating site/app for people with disabilities and 22q that doesnāt cost to much a month to pay for or free sites I am trying to find some but I am not having any luck could anyone help me please thanksĀ
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My mum has change a some rules about dating that now i only date men with moderate LD
I'm been okay but my mum has change some rules about being about only dating men with a moderate learningĀ disability . my learningĀ disability is one very rare called 18-p my mum was always like this when comes to me dating men with only moderate but I go no choice to chose who I want . I'm always frustrated with my mumā¦
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There is already another holiday/vacation in my way of dating and getting into a relationship
Holiday/Vacation coming up and it is going to get in the way of dating. I can't have a long-distance relationship and my mother will refuse to allow me to go on airplane for dating, but she is okay going on airplane for holiday/vacation.Ā I'm been okay but I'm been having bit of trouble with some admins from dating appsā¦
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Is he playing??
This guy who lives in my neighborhood and I started communicating and occassionally seeing each other in September 2023. We both are busy and donāt get to see each other often. He works 8-12 hours a day, and I am unemployed due to disability and I also am a caregiver for my sickly 92 year old mother. Over the course of ourā¦