Disability
Discussion List
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From Sex To Ghosting, These Are The Realities Of Dating With A Disability
From Elle When Frances Ryan began researching her new book Who Wants To Be Normal?, she discovered that there's one part of life that's stuck in the dark ages for disabled women. ‘Can you have sex?’ It is not exactly a charming come-on straight out of a Nora Ephron movie, but it is something I, and I’d bet many other…
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Disability and managed migration
Hi all. Thanks for the previous support, and happy to say my migration was eventually done. My question is for my uncle who has today recieved his managed migration notice. My issue is, he is not computer literate, has serious issues with schizophrenia and doesnt use the Internet etc, and is unlikely to trust support…
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Confirmation I'm deaf finally
I had a ent appointment and hearing test I'm kinda pleased and also kind of distress about fact they have said I've lost most hearing in right ear, awaiting operation for tube removal, which will then lead to no hearing aid apparently on that side, and left side moderate hearing loss and hearing aid I already have a great…
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Sugar Kayne Radio: A Journey of Resilience, Passion and the Power of Music
Sugar Kayne radio. A creation by Matthew Kayne. Since its launch, Sugar Kayne Radio has grown into a favourite for worldwide listeners of RnB, Club Classics, and feel-good hits. Hosted by DJ Sugar Kayne, also known as Matthew Kayne, Sugar Kayne Radio is more than just music- it's a lively community, where listeners connect…
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New Style ESA, PIP, Universal Credit, Studying
Hello, I’m looking for some advice. My mother has been disabled since childhood. Despite this she has worked full time and has 40+ years of full NI contributions. She stopped working in her 50s due to deteriorating health and now receives Universal Credit and New Style ESA due to her NI contributions. She has LCWRA.…
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Pip stopped
hi everyone I had my pip stopped last month, even though I returned my forms on time they told me they never received them. I spoke to them and they sent more forms for me to send and return recorded delivery however in the meantime i get no pip (which I would have normally got this time week) i was once it has been looked…
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Advice on PIP awarding me too high a rate?
For a little context: I’m 16, autistic, likely have adhd (waiting for an assessment), I have CFS, chronic pain, hypermobility and I am currently attending a special needs school for 5 hours a week. I struggle with brain fog, memory issues and limited cognitive energy. I take prescription painkillers for my muscle and joint…
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BURNING/ELECTROCUTING/CHOPPING PAIN all the Same Time
Dear All, I have several co-morbidities, but one of the most debilitating conditions I face is Sensory Motor Polyradiculoneuropathy. My leg(Both legs) symptoms began around August/September 2023, initially as intermittent numbness in both great toes, but they progressed rapidly. By September 2023, I developed permanent…
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Hi, my name is Raj! Can I claim any money due to cancer, also being disabled?
I had pancreatic cancer & surgery was done December 2024. I have decided NOT to go ahead for chemotherapy treatment All my cancer was removed & so far has not spread to any other lymph modes. I am being monitored ever 3 monthly. I have been having pain on the left side of my chest. I am taking too many meds. Can I claim…
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Should I be getting PIP? Currently on UC (LCW).
Hello, I'd like some advice regarding PIP. Specifically: Am I eligible for PIP? Details of my symptoms are further below. If I do proceed, with the application forms that come in the post, are they discreet? Or will it be obvious to everyone what's in the envelope? It's been quite some time since my last doctor…
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PIP ends before motability. How does this work?
hi, my PIP award ends on the 14th February 2027. My hand back date for my motability car is February 21st 2026. Although on the home page it says march 2026. I can apply for a new vehicle on the 21st November. However this will mean I have less that 12 months left on my PIP and the won’t even have initiated my PIP review.…
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Forty Years Celebrating Disabled Artists Across the UK
Let's keep raising awareness during Cerebral Palsy Awareness Month. An artist who has quadriplegic cerebral palsy is one of many showcasing her creativity at a 40th anniversary festival to celebrate disabled and deaf artists. BBC Celebration of Disabled Artists
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Young people on UC LCWRA
I've just joined this site. I have hypermobile ehlers danloss syndrome, chrons disease, postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome, complex post traumatic stress disorder, autism, severe and treatment resistent depression and anxiety. I have more conditions but they're not as relevant to work or daily living. I'm just…
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Flower power
I was feeling rather fed up this morning and dealing with health flared up yet again then I got a knock on the door a delivery of tiny plug plants that I completely forgot I ordered in early January on a special offer deal so it was a nice surprise today seeing these tiny little plants about an inch big and knowing that…
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NIGEL HAS DEMENTIA..
EastEnders fan here ☺️ Paul Bradley plays Nigel better than ever, doesn't he? Playing a man with dementia, he's utterly convincing. Cries like he means it. Then there's hardman Phil Mitchell now attending a 'group support thing' following his mental health crisis and wanting to help his old pal Nigel. I hope it isn't too…
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Share your transport experiences in the National Accessible Transport Survey
You are invited to take part in the National Accessible Transport Survey and share your experiences of transport and travel. We will use the findings to tell the Government, the transport industry, the media, and the public about the state of transport accessibility, and why it must improve, so that disabled people can…
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PIP review
My current PIP award is dated till July 2026 so I’m expecting my review anytime between this summer and early 2026. What I’m wondering is will my review be based on the old system? Or will it be changed based on what labour have proposed in the green papers? My dad thinks that it will be based on the old questions, old…
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Reassurance
Well yesterday my daughter aged 22 broke down with chronic anxiety about the benefit cuts although she has a few health conditions including autism she was refused pip a couple of years ago and took it to heart saying they think I am lying so refused to go through the process anymore she is doing her modern history masters…
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Naidex: More than a Convention
Naidex 2025, taking place on 19th-20th March at the NEC Birmingham, is more than just a convention—it's a vital gathering for disabled people, their families, professionals, and advocates. While it showcases the latest advancements in assistive technology, mobility solutions, and accessibility services, its true power lies…
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Government cuts
I'm concerned and worried the government are using the most vulnerable as scapegoats, maybe stop investing in wars and invest in the country, they're using us to hide their failings. The cuts are concerning to cut it in half next year is too cut my bills and food supply worse than it already is. And then too scrap lcwra…
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Divorce help/info
Hi, I was wondering if anybody had any advice for me. Please be gentle. I'm on PIP and have been for years, I've been married for 5 and live with my mum and my husband - both who work full time. My husband and I are looking at getting a divorce, uncontested. I cannot afford the pay for the full divorce and he's been…
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Hi, my name is Deb5368! I have recently been diagnosed with Linchen Sclerosis
I have recently been diagnosed and I was wondering what things I should be doing to help living with the condition
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Ex is witholding DLA award letter and child is missing out on support
Hi! My ex has been witholding my childs DLA award letter for some reason but it’s seriously impacting the support she receives. We have 50/50 parental responsibility. I have rung the DWP 6-7 times just asking for a copy of the award letter. They will not share it with me as i am not the appointee. Im told to get a court…
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Mature student UC vs HB CTB and UC
hello all, I am disabled, I receive PIP and UC limited capacity (can’t work group), I live with my 2 older children My son 18 is off to University this September 2025 and my Autistic Daughter 17 will be off to University next September 2026. I currently receive UC paying the majority of rent, so from next August any…
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Too Many forks in the road and I don't know which way to go
Hi Everyone This is my first post so please be gentle with me! There is some rambling and a lot of back story but I will get to the point I promise. I've had spinal issues for about 20 years now, with many peaks and troughs. I've had a few spinal surgeries, millions of treatments and I finally got to a semi-decent place…
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Garage not accepting my Motability early return car
I have had a Motability car for a few years which has been amazing but I opted for an early return due to my relationship ending. I spoke to Motability, paid the £250 and they recommended calling the garage that I have the lease with as it would take less time than arranging a pick up with Motability. Anyway, I have rung…
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What is a nurse?.
As Dawn Butler MP said in the UK Parliament just a few weeks ago: “Anyone can...call themselves a nurse. They can print out a business card and start work.” (the Royal College of Nursing) Show your support for the nursing profession and help us reach every MP in the UK. Just share the URL below with the nursing staff you…
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How benefits are effected after marriage, (when one individual is working!)
Hello everybody! I would like some advice about how benefits are effected once you're married. My husband is receiving UC, Disability Living Allowance and Housing Benefit. He was also claiming PIP up until a few months ago before the council stopped it, (a decision that's currently being appealed!). I am working and earn…
Upcoming Events
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Scope and CP Sport Inclusive Sports Festival
Everyone should have the opportunity to enjoy sport. 🎾 Scope is partnering with Cerebral Palsy Sport to bring an Inclusive Sports Festival to Lee Valley Hockey and Tennis Centre on 27 October. It’s a chance for disabled people of all ages to try a range of sports, meet new people and enjoy being active in a friendly,…
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Northern Hybrid Cerebral Palsy Meetup
A meetup for adults with cerebral palsy who live in Northern England. Hybrid meetup for adults with cerebral palsy in Leeds. Join in person or online. Teams joining link sent after booking. This is a relaxed, friendly meetup for adults with cerebral palsy living in or around Leeds. This is a collaborative event with…