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LOSVU11
LOSVU11 Online Community Member Posts: 1 Listener
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I'm worried about having sex, they may not wear a condom which I want. Just my know safety and getting to know them more in a relationship before having it. Putting rules in place

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  • Wheeled_Weapon
    Wheeled_Weapon Online Community Member Posts: 123 Empowering

    You do the right thing getting to know someone properly first. It should be about trust, and if you can't trust them to wear a condom then you aren't in a place of trust.

    Also (awkwardly) as a man, there's no excuses. I had a vasectomy last year and would still wear one if that's what the woman wanted.

    End of the day, you sound like you're sensible, and you sound like you've got firm boundaries.

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 2,616 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Hi @LOSVU11 and welcome to the community. I completely agree with @Wheeled_Weapon. It's good that you're aware of your boundaries and what you're comfortable with.

    It's important to be comfortable in your relationships and that can sometimes take a bit of time. 🙂

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