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Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) and coping skills.
Have you ever been told you overreact or are "too sensitive"? There's a chance you may suffer from a condition known as RSD, or rejection sensitivity dysphoria, which is very common among the neurodiverse. Please note this is not to be confused with "Rejection sensitivity" which is a separate condition, but equally…
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ASD/ADHD and Right to Choose
Did you know you can choose who you get assessed by for autism and ADHD through the NHS if you're in England? With waiting lists hitting record highs over over 3 years for an NHS assessment, I thought I should highlight a way of cutting years off that wait that I've used myself. NHS Right to Choose basically means you have…
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How to safeguard PDA risk curious 13 year old
Hi there. I have a 13 year old child diagnosed autistic PDA. She strives for autonomy and freedom. She is risk curious (alcohol, maybe more). She is social and goes out with friends. I feel she is very vulnerable. Communication between us is up and down. I don't think she tells the truth, but also don't know if I am just…
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Pediatric long wait time
My sons been waiting years for an appointment first 1 was the 3rd Dec now had a letter got 2 wait another 6 months for next appointment its ridiculous
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Child ADHD assessment
Hi to all! I am I’m trying to get some help and answers about a big issue that I am having . Please to all of you, give me your opinion and thoughts and if you can help i would really appreciate it. I am a mum of four. My third child now 11 he has always been super active since he was little. Having said that I have never…
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Hi, my name is liludallas! My son is 18 autistic. He rarely leaves the house.
I know it's been a few years since you wrote about your son. I have the same situation. My son is 18 autistic. He's very smart but can not show it on work so college seems a long shot. He tells me all the time he's leaving( nobody has told him to leave) but he never does. I don't know maybe he will one day but my thoughts…
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Going downhill a bit...
Hi everyone, thank you for accepting me to the group. I am really struggling with my Autism at the moment. I live alone and normally venture out to see my parents twice a week but do get dressed and check the post and occasionally venture out to get milk etc. I was unwell during the Christmas period both physically and…
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Hi, I am Jorj! My wonderful 7-year-old daughter is on the autism spectrum.
My wonderful 7-year-old daughter is on the autism spectrum. Just here to connect and maybe share experiences with others.
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Autistic experiences of Christianity
Hi I am diagnosed with autism with several level 2 needs. and my sensory seems to be level 3 at times to me. I am a Christian and autistic and was looking to have a chat to others about that here but didn’t see any posts. I intend also to discuss about my autism. I thought I would link to other autistic Christians…
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Looking for a career coach for my partner who specialises in neurodivergence and the tech industry
Hi all! My partner is fairly recently diagnosed with ADHD and Autism and has been having a really tough time at work for the past 2-3 years. He works as a developer and his employers have been very unsupportive while he's been struggling/getting diagnosis. He has recently returned back to work after an extended period of…
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Autism/Depression
I just wanted to ask anyone who has Autism. Do any of the people who have Autism get depression? Sorry for interrupting again.
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Hi, my name is GNicolaou! My daughter who is on the autism spectrum and diagnosed with ADHD
Hi there- I am here on behalf of my daughter who is on the autism spectrum and also diagnosed with ADHD as well as several other physical conditions. We were refused PIP previously however our consultant suggested that we should apply within the autism community to seek advice as my daughter is more than eligible for…
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pain
I hate autism. I hate myself for having autism and not thinking like normal people. I hate how it keeps me alone and miserable. I hate how I can't let my guard down around anyone and have to keep people away to keep from getting hurt. I feel nothing for other autistic people because they are too different.
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Late Autism Assessment Issue - Is it true...
Female, 50s, diagnosed ADHD. No living family, NO friends childhood or otherwise. Having had the assessment recently, I have been told it will be difficult to diagnosed me without input from someone who knows me. Is this true? I only have my daughter who I have heavily masked to my whole life, so she is (hopefully) unaware…
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Autism child dla
High I have mentioned the DLA award high rate care needs which I agree with the mobility award I did not agree the award is 10 years The motility part I sent clear evidence of the challenges out side on a journey a school letter a echp plan previous to this at play school This was picked up at 3 years old and had to limit…
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Autism
Hi , please could someone kindly answer my question on what basis autism is diagnosed in an adult and what kind of doctor performs such a diagnosis? Thank you
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Adhd private assessments
I just found a company for assessment they say no profit organisation charging 600 for adhd assessment I get my daughter to check it out and if legit I'm going private if you go private is it taken seriously as a diagnosis
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Early on in your late diagnosis...
Hi folks, I've got a quick query. How many of us who were late diagnosed had got to a point where we had coping strategies so ingrained we didn't recognise them as such? After Diagnosis, it felt like something shifted, (maybe with the start of medication?), I don't know, but suddenly, I felt hyper-aware and more impacted…
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selective mutism
hi i have selective mutism and am unable to communicate via speech most of the time. i live alone am under a mental health team but get little help. lately i have had a few voice messages left on my phone asking me to ring a particular person at the council asking me to ring them but i cant. i dont know what to do, i cant…
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unwanted feelings
As someone with autism I don't expect to have friends or lovers at any point, but the pangs for belonging remain like a constant ache. Some days the heartache is unbearable and I would rather delete these feelings from my being permanently than be haunted by an unattainable goal. Perhaps "ignorance is bliss" applies in…
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Advice on autistic child
I hope you're well. I’m reaching out to you for some advice, as I’m feeling unsure where else to turn. My daughter is 10 years old and undiagnosed autistic, though we are confident she is and shes been on MATT pathway a few years. She experiences extreme anxiety around school, and even stepping onto the playground is a…
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Seeking (very) late diagnosis: advice please
Hello Everybody, I’ve been physically disabled with a neurological disorder since childhood. However, I’m also a very anxious person with a tendency to depression. As I’ve aged, I’ve noticed a number or traits associated with autism. In fact, my now deceased parents began to think this was something doctors had missed,…
