Getting married

beadles93 · July 14

Hi everyone

Me and my partner both have cerebral Palsy spastic quadriplegia full time wheelchair user. We are getting married in 2027? Any hints or tips? Struggling what to to do for first dance? first kiss?

Chris75_ · July 14

Well that's nice, congratulations!

I'm sure you will think of something, music wise, I'm not the best one to ask about things like that, lol.

Mary_Scope · July 14

Massive congratulations @beadles93!!! That's lovely news on a Monday afternoon, thank you for sharing that with us😁😁

hmass01 · July 14

Congratulations how wonderful, I'm afraid in regards to the wedding etc I can't assist much but for the honeymoon I did see this excellent company that are apparently very good for wheelchair users https://go.limitlesstravel.org/accessible-cruises/?utm_keyword=cruising%20for%20the%20disabled&gclid=CjwKCAjw1dLDBhBoEiwAQNRiQTtsyHYznURIqdzimY0_obFUr4sewEQ2o8LKdT0BGAt_c45Smd_zsRoC_coQAvD_BwE&utm_term=cruising%20for%20the%20disabled&utm_campaign=21349722147&utm_source=Google&utm_medium=search&hsa_acc=3355204162&hsa_cam=21349722147&hsa_grp=166074466471&hsa_ad=701414341320&hsa_src=g&hsa_tgt=kwd-335417010133&hsa_kw=cruising%20for%20the%20disabled&hsa_mt=b&hsa_net=adwords&hsa_ver=3&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21349722147&gbraid=0AAAAADR1txV-5UbJZrLW86uomZpaEUQfo

Catherine21 · July 14

Yes congratulations 🎊

hmass01 · July 14

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1048639#Comment_1048639

Hey I'm not that kind of guy

Pickle72 · July 14

Ooh how exciting for you both. Something lovely to look forward to.
I don’t have any tips except to just try and enjoy every second as it will go so quickly. I’m more about the clothes, flowers and food. Have fun arranging it all. Wishing you both a fantastic life together.

Rosie_Scope · July 14

Congratulations @beadles93!! I'm afraid I don't have any tips either, but I hope you have fun with the planning! Sounds like you've got a good bit of time to get creative and make a day that's designed perfectly for you and your partner. Thanks for sharing your news with us ☺️

JennieWren · July 14

congratulations! As you’ve already been told enjoy every moment. The day really does fly past and it’ll be your memory you use a lot more than photos or videos to reminisce the day. As I say to all couples do what you want and what you are comfortable with. How would you usually show affection to one another? Do you want to have a first dance? My friends in an electric wheelchair and loves the silent discos we go to. You do you. Don’t feel pressured by friends, family, or worst of all wedding ’rules’ as I just don’t think they apply anymore. Friends of ours are getting married next year, he’s asd and so they’re not having a top table or speeches. They’re having a small table just the two of them and they’ll mingle as they feel up to it. We love him just the way he is and know that the day will be a tricky one for him, so don’t care what they do it to make their day easier for them to enjoy. I’m sure your friends and family feel the same. Again congratulations!

beadles93 · July 14

Thank you both I'm trying my best I was just hope someone just had tips to help with stress! ****

Tony60 · July 15

Great!! Music wise wedding day by the Bee Gees is a good one. Have a listen to it see what you think.

beadles93 · July 23

Hey guys

Thank you for all for the positive thoughts the venue was disaster. Going to second one tomorrow and first look at wedding dress which is whole other problem! Tomorrow is new day! ****

Albus_Scope · July 24

Oh no @beadles93 what a pain! I hope the next venue is much better for your big day. ❤️

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