How is your day going?

I haven't felt able to post for a few days. I have read everyone's posts though. I just want to pass my love and prayers to all of you who have been struggling over these past days.

I like to here about everyone's day on here be it funny, sad, good or bad. We all have different ways in expressing our feeling's and your day and how it's going should be shared how you want it to be. I think it's precious being able to share to a post, where you will hopefully find empathy, understanding, help, advice and supportive words. We share our local weather reports, our favourite pictures or funny stories and our memories, difficulties, worries, happiness or sadness. Keep feeling able to share, whatever your day has been for you.❤️

Resting my knee

Agony to move

Absolutely chuckin it down

Sorry can you delete the post that I post by mistake and meant going a lot on my own being anxious all the time and dealing with emotions guilt trips and gaslighting to . Trying to control when my emotions are out of control. Both of my parents did the same thing . Still very tired. In okay at moment and I just want to live at home but I feel trapped. I can't even say anything that upset me when comes to my mum will get angry at me and used to guit me . I already done trying to fix it.

@Katiedimelow20 ive spoken before of some of the similarities with your feelings and mother with my own parents. I won't bore you with them details.

My late sister had BPD and psychosis and was sectioned often. She decided to change her next of kin to me, as she felt uncomfortable with my mum knowing everything. It gave her some control back.

I left home when I was 21yrs so I had some control of my own life. I found my feet more though with counciling, it wasn't easy but I started to feel much more in control of my own life. I don't know if you have access to anything like that or have already tried this? Doctor's surgeries often have wellness clinics. im also not sure why you can't see your GP etc on your own? im appointees to both of my adult son's, if they want me or someone else with them then I try to help but I hope that I always give them the opportunity to make their own decisions. My eldest son has direct payments and has support from a carer for several hours a week, she goes shopping with him, takes him to appointments and it's up to him what he wants to do.

I think you may need someone independent who can help you with your difficulties. The only time they will usually pass details to other agencies or family is if they are concerned there is a threat to your life or someone else's.

I really hope you can get some support. I really feel for you.

@WhatThe I assure you that im not basking in others sorrows, im 58 and have had a most colourful life. If I see someone with a struggle and I think I may be able to give a bit of encouragement or advice then I will try. If I see a picture that makes me smile I may post a picture that I think may make others smile. It's my human trait Sept 2025.

@Elvisdog i already tried going to doctors but is was more about irregular period that only what doctors appointment that i got and yep my mum still come in with me when comes to doters and she took care of my healthcare and my money . so I'm trapped here even i don't want to live here . did had also has ultrasound at hospital and going have another ultrasound again not sure when . my mum also been with me to .

You can insist on seeing the GP alone, can you not? You aren't a child and have a right to privacy.