Getting fed up

Now after being diagnosed recently with moderate osteoarthritis of my lumber kyphoscoliosis of upper thoracic spine now after results of a neck mri I have cervical osteoarthritis cervical radiculopathy and degenerative disc disease have to go and see specialist as nerve severely compressed bilaterally because of bone spurs I've had neck pain for years and physio hasn't helped it bone spurs dont just grow overnight how long have I had this been medically gaslighted all my life im 39 years old and feel like I've got the body of a 60 year old