Preparing for Emergencies and Catastrophes

StarryEyed
StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 394 Empowering

World Mental Health Day this year was on October 10, as we were reminded on this forum by @Holly_Scope. The focus this year is:

"The purpose of World Mental Health Day is to improve knowledge, raise awareness and mobilise efforts in support of mental health around the world. This year's theme – 'Mental health in humanitarian emergencies' – highlights the challenges of providing mental healthcare during large-scale emergencies."

I experienced two large-scale emergencies this year - countrywide flooding and a countrywide blackout. I totally fell apart. So I started my emergency preparedness a few months ago, but ironically I was too scared thinking about an emergency so I couldn't do it. With the encouragement of @Holly_Scope , @ChristineC1 and others in that thread talking about World Mental Health Day, I started preparing and hope we can work together in setting up emergency plans. Like most people around the world, I can barely manage my days as it is, let alone plan for an emergency event, so it's really challenging to set aside time and energy for this. But with the little I've done already, I have come to see it as an investment of time and energy to decrease stress now and in the future because with every step I take in setting up my plan, I feel less anxious right now and know that I will feel less anxious in the future.

The best place I found for how to prepare for emergencies is with the British Red Cross. Here is their website re this as well as screenshots of what you will find on that link:

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There are some things on here you might want to do, and others not. Or maybe you don't want to do any at all, or maybe you just want to read along and see if there are things that come up later on in the thread that you might want to do in the future.

I'll start with that and post soon about about what I'm doing as I go along preparing for emergencies - knowing full well that we can't prepare for all emergencies. Maybe others want to join in and share their experiences and thoughts too?

Bye for now.

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  • Kimi87
    Kimi87 Online Community Member Posts: 7,773 Championing

    I live alone and have a key safe, for emergencies when I can call for help but can't get to the door.

    Recently I realised there might be occasions where I couldn't call for help but entry was still needed. Or I wasn't home and didn't know about a fire or flood etc.

    I duly researched and my local ambulance offers a service where I lodge the code with them.

    It places a flag on my address which the other emergency services can access.

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 394 Empowering

    The link didn't show up for the Red Cross. Here it is…

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 394 Empowering

    @Kimi87 I imagine that is such a relief for you! Do you find it helps decrease your anxiety in present day knowing that you have this put safetynet in place? I imagine it would, but don't presume so.

  • Kimi87
    Kimi87 Online Community Member Posts: 7,773 Championing

    It does make me feel a lot better, yes πŸ™‚

    Living alone and being single is tough, especially when unwell so anything that eases that is welcome.

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 394 Empowering

    I live alone too. And I'm really vulnerable with all my illnesses, especially now that I'm limited in mobility. So it's really a must. I'm framing this work as being helpful to others by minimising the work they have to do. By doing it to help someone else it helps me do this, rather just doing it for myself. Does that make sense? Do you frame it that way too?

  • Kimi87
    Kimi87 Online Community Member Posts: 7,773 Championing

    Yes that makes sense. I take the opposite view, I'm alone, no one is putting myself first so I need to do it for my own protection and safety.

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 394 Empowering

    Yes, I see it like that too. Ideally everyone should take care of themselves first. It's like on an airplane you need to put on your own oxygen mask first. That's to save yourself for yourself and then, if you're so inclined, you can be available to help others.

    I just really like being independent too. Ironically, we sometimes have to ask for a little help to be independent, like in the example you give of lodging your code with the local ambulance so you can live independently.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,452 Championing

    I been stocking piling tins funny enough just ordered loads of bottles water brought a crank radio power bank for phone and seriously considering solar powered generator there been a hacking of EE /BT two weeks ago i dont trust government or outside government to make the grid go down I truly believe the next few years we will experience alot of things so helpful this advice thankyou

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 4,260 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    This is a great discussion as we start to enter winter - thank you so much for sharing this and for your kind words @StarryEyed. It's so important for people, especially in remote areas and Scotland who tend to get the brunt of it! Looking forward to learning more about your preparation.

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 394 Empowering
    edited October 31

    @Holly_Scope I hope this thread will help others, but at the very least I hope it gives me the push needed to get my emergency measures in place.

    I look at all these online emergency kit ideas and my eyes just gloss over and my brain goes into traffic jam mode. Just the thought of an emergency causes me to short circuit because of anxiety and being overwhelmed. And these lists I find are just too much to absorb. So I went to various sites to see if they have suggestions for people with mental illness who want to set up emergency measures. I looked at the WHO, the EU, the Red Cross, the Mental Health Foundation and more. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. I looked if there was information for this year's focus of mental health in emergencies. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. What they have is a whole lot of proof that emergencies are particularly difficult for people with mental health issues and that emergencies can even cause mental health issues even in people who never had such problems. There are also a lot of ideas about how to deal with people during an emergency and after an emergency. There are also a lot of ideas of how to coordinate services during and after emergencies. But what about what we're talking about here, which is improving our mental health now by putting in measures now and by improving our mental health in the future by putting in measures now to lessen the crisis? Nothing. Not that I could find anyway. This isn't my first rodeo with ass-backwards approaches to mental health. The idea of an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure applies to mental health too - not just physical health. Anyway. Grrr.

    Through experience, I believe very much in this approach of doing something now in the hopes of preventing crisis, or minimising crisis, or even just believing I just might soften a future blow. Unfortunately I can't find how to approach this emergency kit setup without short circuiting, so I've decided to just keep going from where I'm at, and hope for clarity as the steps unfold. Or maybe someone else here has an idea of how to approach this?

    Step one was like you describe, @Catherine21 , which is to just buy a bunch of emergency supplies off the top of my head. I actually even bought a little generator. I did that after the flood and blackout earlier this year. I'll post what I bought in my next post, and discuss them. Then I did a contacts list recently, after @Holly_Scope announced World Mental Health Day. I totally love that list as it gives me such peace of mind. It includes friends, family, professionals (plumber, handyman, etc), crisis lines and emergency services. I taped it on the insides of my kitchen cupboards, and it gives me such relief every time I open the cupboards. I sent a copy to my sister and brother. I put a printed copy in my purse to have with me at all times. Again, that's such a comfort to have on me when out and about.

    That's it for now. Later!

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 394 Empowering
    edited November 13

    Hi again!

    I've been working on an Emergency Preparedness Plan and have done a lot so far, and I'm just putting it out here on the forum to see if anyone wants to help me with this or join me in setting up the plan - or both. To start, I've come up with a list of types of emergencies and catastrophes, where an emergency is less serious than a catastrophe. So here is my list. Perhaps you have more to add, or have a comment?

    *Pet emergency

    *No water

    *Isolated at home due to my illness

    *Power outage

    *House fire

    *Mobile phone unavailable

    *Internet unavailable

    *LAN line unavailable

    *Medical emergency

    *Psychiatric emergency

    *Natural disaster in area, such as fire, flood or storm

    *WiFi unavailable

    *No heating/cooling

    Any thoughts?

    (DISCLAIMER: I write this as a layperson, with absolutely positively zero qualifications as to how to set up emergency planning.)

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,452 Championing

    Ive git three big tubs of tinned foods stockpiling lighters batteries white vinegar honey buying medication paracetamol ect torches im saving for a generator got a pet emergency pack been buying powdered soups bottles of dettol my daughter laughs at me I said hey your be glad ive got all this if grid goes out or society collapses I was even looking up how to strengthen front doors ive gone all in wish could be like some countries where they have metal door and metal window coverings sounds extreme but anything is possible in the next few years

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 394 Empowering
    edited November 15

    Hi @Catherine21

    Thank you so much for adding your work to this. Wow, you've been busy!

    Like your daughter, a lot of people aren't doing emergency planning. It's really weird with all the catastrophes going on that people aren't taking notice, even when governments are advising people to set up emergency plans. Do you remember that children's story "The Body Who Cried Wolf"? It's the story about a boy who kept alerting neighbours to a wolf who wasn't really there. The neighbours kept running to the rescue of the boy, only to find there was no wolf. After many times of doing this, the neighbours got tired of his false alarms. So when the day came that the wolf was actually there and the boy cried out wolf, no one came to his rescue. The idea is that people just get desensitised by alarms. It's the same story as in the recent Netflix movie "Don't Look Up". And I think that's what's happened - that people just don't take threats seriously anymore because they've become desensitised.

    For me, I can't react to emergencies because of childhood trauma that prevented my emergency response from developing properly. Part of me might also be not wanting to set up emergency planning because part of me has a death wish, an element of recurring depression.

    Anyway, regardless of the reason, I really, really want to set up some safeguards for emergencies because I keep getting retraumatised by these emergency events and I'm getting retraumatised just thinking about the next impending doom, and I'm sick and tired of being caught with my pants down. So to speak. 😊

    I triple love your collection of emergency stuff. I got to the point in the spring where I had bought a bunch of emergency stuff and then that bunch of stuff got me more confused than I was before having the stuff. So I dropped the idea. So my new idea is to use a list I have created for planning. All your stuff fits on my lists. How about we start from there? How about I post that list and explain how to use it? Are you game? Again, thank you for chiming in. πŸ’–

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,452 Championing

    Yes id be very intreasted god im learning so much from this group about trauma in early childhood and at 53 just understanding I have a trauma bond with my dad !!! Reading up on all the systems its 100 percent i never normally do anything thing like this but something in my soul knows its going to get tough and im hyper fixated even thinking of ordering shelves to put on downstairs cupboard god by time I finished be jam packed im all or noting but yes really relate to what your saying

  • Chris75_
    Chris75_ Online Community Member Posts: 3,994 Championing
    edited November 16

    If the worst happens, I don't fancy trying to survive the nuclear winter! Who wants to live in a world solely populated by cockroaches and politicians? πŸ˜‰

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 394 Empowering

    @Chris75 _ you bring up a good point – how much of catastrophe are we planning for here? Not such a big one as nuclear winter, no. LOL! And I too hope not to survive to experience that. Sheesh! I don't think any individual can really prepare for that. I'm talking about things we're experiencing now and in the recent past, like COVID lockdowns, fires in the region, power grid failures, floods, and stuff like that. But of course people can prepare for whatever they want.

    @Catherine21 it sounds like you're planning for a long time. How long are you thinking? The EU recommends three days. I think that's too little, so I'm aiming for one week.

    So moving forward with the list....

    THERE IS NO ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL PREPARATION: From what I see, there is no one emergency preparedness that will fit everyone because we all live differently. Everywhere I looked online had different ideas as to how to prepare. So @Catherine21 a flood to you is a different emergency than a flood to me.

    PREPARING FROM THE ANGLE OF DISABILITIES: In preparing for emergencies, we all come from different angles. My main angle is from the perspective of someone with psychiatric and physical disabilities. Another person's disability would possibly require a different preparation.

    EMERGENCIES ARE TRANSLATED INTO PROBLEMS: Because of my anxiety and dissociation, I need to break down the emergency situations into smaller pieces. When I look at the list of emergencies that I posted earlier, I see that different emergencies bring up different problems, and there are some problems that overlap. So I went through all the emergencies and did a list of all the potential problems in the different emergencies.

    PHASES TO PREPAREDNESS: I organised that list of problems into six groups of related problems. Each problem group is a phase in preparing for emergencies. So there are six phases to preparation. I have organised the phases from easiest and/or most urgent, to most difficult and/or least urgent. This order is of course subjective; I'm organising it according to my perspective. For example, I am starting with emergencies in which I can stay at home, leading up to evacuation.

    ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO PREPARE: The idea of me doing this list is to, first of all do my own preparedness of course, and second of all hopefully encourage others to do theirs. My preparedness falls apart if no one around me is prepared because their emergency becomes my emergency. Like the example you suggest @Catherine21 of people trying to break into your apartment to get your supplies. If we all prepare a little, all emergencies become less of an emergency.

    OPTIONAL ACTIVITY: Each phase will have an optional activity.

    So I think the best approach is to provide a thread for each phase, and post the links here to those phases. I will only post one phase at a time so as to keep focused. Phase One is called The Foundation, and the thread is here:

  • jonf
    jonf Online Community Member Posts: 327 Empowering

    I have everything that I need for 21 days


    ladies seriously I don’t see it on the list


    CHOCOLATE !!!

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,452 Championing
  • jonf
    jonf Online Community Member Posts: 327 Empowering