Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change

northwestlondon
northwestlondon Online Community Member Posts: 12 Listener
in Mental health and wellbeing

trying to stay positive and have hope I had to leave work in November as my walking has got worse and now I am starting to run out of money by the end of this month I will be in arrears of rent and bills what can I do I can’t get any benefits as I have money tied up in investment locked in for another few years it brings me in some money each month but not enough to cover everything I need to find a job locally as I can’t use buses or trains on my own balance is near gone.what hope is there? Next month comes there going to be wanting there rent which I will not be able to give I have no other choice but to stay here until I get evicted.you can’t give what you have not got I should of been entitled to pip but was refused now I am waiting for a tribunal and plan to then take legal action against them as this is there fault and the assessor should not have this kind of job as there is wires crossed somewhere but there is hope there is always hope and always someone worse off than myself

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  • Ross1975
    Ross1975 Online Community Member Posts: 883 Championing

    Are you talking about manifestation/law of attraction? I think there's some truth in that, it's what I've been trying myself and it could just be a coincidence but so far so good.

  • northwestlondon
    northwestlondon Online Community Member Posts: 12 Listener

    I don’t know Ross it was just something someone said to me today when I was telling them about the situation it kind of stuck a chord with me .I know there are people worse off so I am just trying to turn things around keep going and what will be will be.

  • Ross1975
    Ross1975 Online Community Member Posts: 883 Championing
    edited March 3

    I find that when there's something really important that I want to happen, every night when I'm in bed before I go to sleep I will imagine it happening as though it was really happening, and I'll feel the positive feelings that I would feel as though it was really happening. I've done this for a few different things and so far it seems to have worked.

  • northwestlondon
    northwestlondon Online Community Member Posts: 12 Listener

    nice to hear I can also try and glad it’s working for you keep going also

  • SheffieldMan1976
    SheffieldMan1976 Posts: 618 Connected

    I do try and have a positive outlook, it's just in my nature to be grumpy, Mum calls me Victor Meldrew lol.

  • northwestlondon
    northwestlondon Online Community Member Posts: 12 Listener

    I loved one foot in the grave surly you couldn’t of been as bad as victor 😂

  • Ross1975
    Ross1975 Online Community Member Posts: 883 Championing
    edited March 4

    I love a lot of the 90's comedies like One Foot In The Grave, Keeping Up Appearances, Red Dwarf, Mr Bean, The Brittas Empire, Bottom, etc.

  • SwiftFox
    SwiftFox Online Community Member Posts: 767 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1106533#Comment_1106533

    If this works for you this way, how does it work if like a lot of people on here, talk about their illness everyday. Wouldn't talking about and thinking about your illness attract more of the same thing?.

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