Hi, my name is Liz69!

Hello Liz (?) @Liz69 and a warm welcome to the community. It is good to have you with us.
There are a number of categories/forums on here that you might like to have a look at; Autism spectrum disorders https://community.scope.org.uk/categories/learning-disabilities-and-autism, Ask an ASD advisor https://community.scope.org.uk/categories/ask-an-asd-advisor and, perhaps, Parents and carers https://community.scope.org.uk/categories/carers-of-disabled-children-and-adults
In these you should find resources and conversations which will hopefully relate to what you desire to know. Please have a look through and let me know how you get on
Of course, if you don't find what you're looking for or there is anything else you think we might be able to help with, don't hesitate to be in touch.
Warmest best wishes to you and to your sons,
Richard