Hi, my name is Dylan246!

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  • steve51
    steve51 Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Dylan246

    “No probs”

    Wow how good will that be my friend!!!! 

    Yes I loved the going there until my “Brain”
    decided to go “BANG”

    Have a great time in the “SUN”

  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    Hi @steve51 I get how you're feeling, I've been there. Life is a never-ending rollercoaster full of ups and downs. You've just got to ride through it. I hope so. Hope you have a great Christmas.
  • steve51
    steve51 Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Dylan246

    Yes your right there is plenty of ups & downs.

    But life would be very boring don’t you think.

    I tell you that for some reason I have gone very “grey” for some reason!!!!!

    Have a great Xmas!!!!!!

    Please please have a drink ?? ?on me!!!!!!!!!!

  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    That's very true @steve51. Tell me about it, I'm going grey also! Have a great Christmas too!!!! I'll have a non-alcoholic drink on you as I don't drink alcohol!
  • steve51
    steve51 Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Dylan246

    Yes that will be a good idea   ???

    I’m “Wobbly” enough without any alcohol
              ???

    Have a “Great” one my friend ???????
  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    @steve51 I'm the same. I will try to. Have a great one too. 
  • steve51
    steve51 Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Dylan246

    Good Morning!!!!!

    Yes have a great time my friend!!!!

    Please please let me know if I can help you further???!
  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    Hi @steve51 and good afternoon! I'll try to! 
    I do need some help on processing my emotions because I got shouted at today for not meeting expectations even though I did not know what was expected of me! It made me angry and guilty so I bit myself again in order to stop me from crying or getting angry at the person which could backfire badly. I don't like it when I do that. 
  • Richard_Scope
    Richard_Scope Posts: 4,007 Cerebral Palsy Network
    Who shouted at you? I hope you are safe and feeling okay?

  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    Richard_Scope it was my mum. I tried to get out of the car to open the door of the house and the only way I could put me in the way of Mum and then I put the door open too wide when she didn't tell me what she was doing in the car so I though she was getting out shopping. 
    I am safe though and am okay.
  • steve51
    steve51 Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Dylan246

    Do you want me to help you with your emotions if possible??

    I am happy to see what we can do to help you!!!!!!!

    Please please let me know how you feel????
  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    Thank you @steve51 that would really mean a lot to me. I feel ok now but still emotionally ropey. 
  • Richard_Scope
    Richard_Scope Posts: 4,007 Cerebral Palsy Network
    Good morning @Dylan246
    Really pleased to hear that you are safe, thanks for letting me know that. You are a valued member of our community and we are here for you. Lots of us understand what it's like to deal with feelings of frustration and anger. There are some very good resources on the MIND website that might help. 


  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    Thank you Richard_Scope I will take a look at the MIND website. I really appreciate what you said as I struggle with feelings of loneliness either on my own or with other people. 
  • steve51
    steve51 Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Dylan246

    Good Afternoon!!!!!

    Ok shall we make a start???

    We need your to start from the beginning!!!!

    By starting at that point means that we can both cover the things required.

    Please please let me know if I can help????

  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    Hi @steve51. It's quite hard to start from the beginning because I've never really been able to deal with my emotions properly. I think I've taught myself to believe that if I attempt to express myself assertively then it might come across as aggressive and I could hurt my relationships. I'm sorry if it this sounds vague, I have never really asked for advice about this. 
  • steve51
    steve51 Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Dylan246

    “Sorry”

    I am very very happy in starting from where you are okay with????

    Please please let me know now you feel & then we can see how things go from there??
  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    I feel okay right now but often when I am faced with confrontation I freeze up and struggle to speak whilst going bright red. It is like my body is seized up and I can't speak in case I say something wrong. 
  • steve51
    steve51 Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Dylan246

    Thats great news, yes I am the same. 

    This seems to be quite common to be honest !!!!!!

    Please please let me know if there is anything that I can support you with ??????? 
  • Dylan246
    Dylan246 Posts: 53 Contributor
    I'm glad someone understands that but I would like to know how to respond differently that is healthy but not aggressive. How do you deal with it?

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