Safe dating sites for son?

karenkirby123
karenkirby123 Online Community Member Posts: 3 Listener
edited April 2019 in Relationships
Hi I am a parent of a young man with aspergers who is 21, he is desparate for friends and especially a girlfriend, does anyone know of any safe sites , His preference is very hard to match as he loves Japanese people and the culture, any ideas? 

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  • Antonia_Alumni
    Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
    Hi @karenkirby123 welcome to the community :)  Thank you for sharing this with us, I have tagged @PSHEexpert our sex and relationships expert who may have some suggestions.
  • TheArrow
    TheArrow Online Community Member Posts: 27 Connected
    From personal experience there is no disability friendly dating apps, nor can I say that all of them are safe.

    Plus with most of the dating apps today, they expect some sort of payment for you to see who has liked you or to send a message.
  • PSHEexpert
    PSHEexpert Online Community Member Posts: 170 Empowering
    Hello!  This is an ongoing issue and one which is being looked at because there are definitely some gaps!  There are one or two that are starting to spring up now - there's Happily which is a new one but it's London based at present.  Whereabouts are you? (Roughly!)
  • karenkirby123
    karenkirby123 Online Community Member Posts: 3 Listener
    Hi  I am in south Manchester.
  • PSHEexpert
    PSHEexpert Online Community Member Posts: 170 Empowering
    Righty ho - park that one with me and let me go and ask.  Have you heard of Supported Loving?  This is something that's come up lots of times at our network meetings - the lack of safe, accessible dating agencies (that don't cost a small fortune) for people who have autism, or other additional communication or social needs.  I will go and post the question in our group and come back to you ASAP. :)

  • karenkirby123
    karenkirby123 Online Community Member Posts: 3 Listener
    Thankyou 
  • gaz1960
    gaz1960 Online Community Member Posts: 292 Empowering
    This seems to be a safe site. Not used it myself,but gets good reviews. 

    http://www.outsiders.org.uk/outsidersclub/

    Seems to be mostly London based.