Discrimination in shops

Its normally smaller shops I have these issues in like Sainsburys or tesco express the giant supermarkets 
have more CCTV  and probably plain clothed security I've never had this issue in giant supermarkets. Making a complaint won't make too much of a difference as most non disabled people would not believe you and all non disabled people stick together. I  will just tell them I've come in here to buy my products and I will tell them to there face that i think they are profiling me becaue im disabled and I have not come in to shop lift i have come in to purchase my items.  i have never stolen anything from a shop in my life to constantly be the only person that is followed around in a £1 shop or iceland is so offensive. My  opinion of security guards that practice this type of profiling is they are nasty bigoted bullies you never see a security guard target a male shop lifter they generally only target shop lifters who look like they can't fight back I hate security guards so much !!! 

I think it's DSS discrimination that is causing this I don't think its just disabled people that suffer this I think it's single parents ect. Yeah I probably shouldn't say I hate all security guards but I really dislike them quite allot as I've said I've never actually shop lifted anything in my life most professional shop lifters will look and act completely normal they won't look like me. I think security guards should go on behaviour rather then someone not ticking the box of what people view as normal it feels like if they don't like the look of you it's almost like they want to catch you shop lifting. I've been followed in really cheap shops as well like £1 shops iceland and these are crowded stores where I am the only person being followed I've suffered this for years and it really winds me up I think anyone can aquire a disability at any age or any point in there life it's in everyone's best interest that this kind of thing should not happen I've had security guards tell me im just doing my job literally speaking to me like I'm a criminal just because I've stood up to them 

I think they are either inexperienced or not very good at there job I'm not sure which company it is im more calm these days I don't shout at them like I use to but I will let them know i no they are following me if you stay calm and tell them i no your following me and your profiling me because im disabled it make them more uncomfortable but if you shout you will just look guilty and they will talk to you like a criminal.  They have  tactics they will follow me everywhere I go but they will pretend to sort out the shelves and keep an eye on me it's not in my head as they will follow me around literally the whole store and do this every single time until I get to the self service check out at which point I'm the only customer with a security guard standing behind me checking I am paying for my items. I've been researching online it is a thing it's called bias based profiling. These days there is so much hostility towards disabled people I have a visable disability but physically i have really high mobility most people assume I'm on loads of benifits and they will look at me like there is nothing wrong with me so I get the same hostility from people that people with hidden disabilities suffer which is my opinion on why I get followed the media has created so much hostility through the stories they print about disabled people being lying stroungers with nothing wrong with them allot of the time people look at me thinking why should I feel sorry for them they claim loads in benifits and my taxes pay for that so people think I deserve to be treated like that. 

Can I just say that it doesn't mean this is not happening just because non of you have experienced it we all have different disabilities and experience different discrimination. 

People do get followed around the shops as potential shop lifters and until this has happened to you you will have no idea how awful it is and i feel that i am being profiled because of my @poppy123456  i dont think your experience with your daughter is comparatible story to mine as I am talking about being profiled as a shop lifter you are talking about eating in a restaurant !

Also people are experiencing disability related hate crime due to the Media over representing stories about people commiting disability benifits fraud you only have to go online and research disability hate crime and watch people's stories.

Posting this and basically being called a liar just shows how difficult it is to get your voice heard as you just get called some kind of trouble making liar !

I think you so desperately want me to be wrong that you are saying anything you sound like an extremely condescending person in my opinion.  I feel like I'm being ganged up on for telling people about my experiences I think it is just undermining what people are actually going through people should not be worried about other people juding them when they write a post. Also @poppy123456 your not actually disabled your daughter is so your opinion doesn't matter in my opinion anyway 

Also  calling me parnoid or  a liar is making you worse then people that are commiting disability hate crime.  I'm a burns serviver I have mild scars to my face and quite bad 3rd degree burns to both of my hands my mobility is high but I look very disabled I do feel like people pick on me because I look like I can't fight back this is mainly from women.  i have been working for the last five years everyone assumes  I'm benifits and live in some kind of massive council house I live in London so this makes people very resentful. I've had people say to me I don't get benifits like you my taxes pay for that and generally be hostile towards me. I get followed around shops as people think I've been attacked with  acid and have some kind of connection with gangs again I've had many people ask me directly havd you been attacked with acid. 

This is actually happening and to have people undermine me on a durability foroom is really shocking. I'm a single person I'm in contact with my family but I am definitely judged as a single person  if I walked into the shops with a family I probably wouldn't get followed. But the reality with disability is allot of people are excluded from being able to go on dates as they feel judged and as  a result end up single then people view you as having something wrong with you this is not just me allot of people with visable and invisible disabilities will find it difficult to go on dates due to fear of judgment. 

Im one of the lucky ones I have a group of friends I have a job but to be honest I stand up for myself which is what people need to be doing these comments are are awful because it's just undermining the severity of what is happening satisically people with disabilities are socially excludes treated badly by random members of the public I no this through lived experiences and reading other people's stories online  and generally live a poorer life calling people parnoid is really not helpful it's like your sweeping all the wrong that is going on under the carpet and blaming the individual.