A person using my details

skhan95
skhan95 Online Community Member Posts: 123 Connected
in PIP, DLA, ADP and AA
Hy hope everyone is doing good 
Actually I'm in so much stress today . I know one of the lady she used to live in my refuge and we had exchange our numbers after that I moved into my flat and she also got place before me after that it's been 3 years I hardly talk to her or met her may be twice or 3 times 
Today she had a assessment from pip and she told them I remind her for medicine I make budget for her money I remind her to take shower any many more lies which Is totally wrong I'm not in contact with her from veryyy long time but she tell pip my name and said I know her better which is lie 
Now my main concern is I applied for pip and I  dnt want any problem for me as I have mental health so im not capable at all to anything for anyone even I'm struggling by myself as well. I'm not happy why she is use my name everywhere in college in hospital in dr in assessments everywhere 
What should I do I'm so stressed its 1:40am and I'm awake :-( 

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  • skhan95
    skhan95 Online Community Member Posts: 123 Connected
    She can plan journeys very well she can cook bath go out manage her money very well  she attend her appointments she go 2 or 3 time a year abroad stay there for 6 8 months if you ask her how to go Paris by train she knows everything but it's not my problem I just dnt like when she lie about me and use my name I do not talk to her at all whenever she want to take her frustration out then she may calm me may be once or twice a year that's it 
  • Girl_No1
    Girl_No1 Online Community Member Posts: 379 Pioneering
    How do you know she did this?  
  • affii1993
    affii1993 Online Community Member Posts: 103 Contributor
    @Girl_No1 yeah exactly did does she know she did this
  • affii1993
    affii1993 Online Community Member Posts: 103 Contributor
    @skhan95 wow by reading your message you sound very very frustrated, how do you know she used your name for all this? And just becus she goes on holiday doesn’t mean she’s physically ok she might not be well and your saying ur mental health is not good how do u her isn’t good either are u sad as she used ur name or frustrated that fact u won’t be accept for pip??
  • skhan95
    skhan95 Online Community Member Posts: 123 Connected
    She call me yesterday and said they have asked (pip)me questions and I said you help me in everything then I said I dnt meet you I dnt talk to you then why u said this
  • skhan95
    skhan95 Online Community Member Posts: 123 Connected
    I'm sorry if couldn't make you understand this is how i try to explain things:-(
  • MarkM88
    MarkM88 Online Community Member Posts: 3,119 Connected
    In reality, anyone can say on a form X does this for me, or Y does that for me, if it doesn’t happen though then it’s obviously not true. 

    All you can do I think is if you were asked is to deny it and tell the truth, but I can’t imagine a HCP or DM wanting to speak with you about it. 

    Alongside this, I don’t know if there is much you can do. 

    Maybe other members have thoughts? 
  • skhan95
    skhan95 Online Community Member Posts: 123 Connected
    Ok thank you markn88 
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Scope Posts: 12,468 Championing
    Hi @skhan95 :) It's understandable that this situation would make you feel stressed. I hope that the above replies have put your mind at ease a little, and that you managed to get some sleep in the end. 

    You also don't need to apologise. Your post made sense, I think other members were just trying to clarify what the situation was and how you'd found out they'd used your details.

    Best of luck with your own PIP claim :) How are you feeling about it?

    You mentioned that you were experiencing some mental health problems too- is that something you're receiving any support for? 
  • skhan95
    skhan95 Online Community Member Posts: 123 Connected
    Yes I'm getting support from mental health team 
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Scope Posts: 12,468 Championing
    That's good to hear @skhan95 :) Is it helping? 
  • skhan95
    skhan95 Online Community Member Posts: 123 Connected
    Yes kind of I have been to so many counselling sessions I take medication as well but this year I couldn't get any sessions now I spoke to my support worker about this I'm going to see him tomorrow..I'm feeling very low and tearfull each and every minute ma anger issue is going crazy I can't control I'm panicking if I have to do anything not going out not cleaning home it's just making me panic and angry :-( sorry I tried my best to write in English:-(
  • skhan95
    skhan95 Online Community Member Posts: 123 Connected
    I'm going parental mental health services as well to get help but each day is becoming hard and stressful I'm tired I want to feel positive but I give up daily I can't do anything  I'm so sad daily and restless :-(
  • skhan95
    skhan95 Online Community Member Posts: 123 Connected
    From 2017 I'm attending counselling sessions I never missed one because I want to get better but no I'm not feeling even 10%  still trying I hope one day :(

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