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Afternoon all you lovely people, i hope your all well, had a lovely day here today, sun been shining, hubby came with me for a walk round the block, first time i have been for my little walk this year
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Youngest son and his family came over which was not expected, so nice couple of hours, x
Perhaps hubby making a New Years resolution @Ada x0 -
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Evening and finally piece and quiet, chill out time0
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Ada said:Feeling a little overwhelmed on here today. I don’t like negatively around my mental illnesses. Of which one part I’ve had since birth. I don’t like being doubted or even thought of wrongly.
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Hi @Ada - I do hope I haven't inadvertently caused you distress. I've maintained an interest in Asperger's as my son met a neuropsychiatrist when he was 19/20. He was tested against results from his peers, which were other Uni students. He excelled in most tests, but not all. Altho this Dr said he wouldn't diagnose our son, he explained that, looking at here is 'normal,' then autism as a spectrum, my son was 'next door' to Asperger's. My son says this was the best Dr he'd ever met, who totally 'got' him.Now I don't consider my son to necessarily have problems; he just sees things differently, & I would also consider him very intelligent. It gives him strengths, rather than weaknesses! Unfortunately my now ex-husband only recently apologised to me for not believing in this neuropsychiatrist's reports many years ago; he too was embarrased; why?After reading about Hans Asperger's links to the Nazi's euthanasia programme, I suggested to Scope that they change the category name of 'Autism & Asperger's.' This they have done, but my explanation in no way undermines your diagnosis; as an aside, my own disorder has been re-named 3 times in the past 20+ years.I worked after qualifying as a physio in the then regional spinal injuries unit, before working with children with cerebral palsy, which was what I wanted to do. This was in a large (1100+ patients mental health hospital), so I do have some knowledge about this. Yes, many children with cerebral palsy (& young adults) were in a mental health hospital! I'll never forget the little boy who'd been battered by his Dad, & was subsequently blind, & nearly completely deaf, nor the lovely lady who used to read me her poems as I went into work, who had been unfortunately institutionalised. Please know I also have some understanding of mental health hospitals, having become the Superintendent Physio of one.Nothing I said was meant to cause offence; there is no problem in continuing to say you have Asperger's, but some may now consider the name offensive due to Hans Asperger's historical background. I'm just going off what the National Autistic Society say: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/what-is-autism/asperger-syndrome1
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Nothing to be sorry for @Ada - just pleased we're OK. I mistakenly thought I'd caused offence, which I'd never want to do.You come across fine. Just saying I have a little understanding about some things due to my background, & of course my son. He has problems socialising, but met this lovely person who is now his wife; they're a great team, tho she teases how did I ever put up with him!His first date with her was to take her to see a film at the cinema, his second to go to Flamingo Land to see the animals. He's really into big cats, so even on their honeymoon they visited a zoo, & went to a sanctuary where there was this certain big cat, the only one in captivity in the UK.He's a delight to me, & always will be. It would be a sad world if we were all the same. I celebrate that which makes him different, but certainly interesting!3
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Good morning to all of you
Finally feel like half a hunan again and not a zombie hoping I'm on the mend and can get out of bed today
What have you all got planned for today2 -
Good Morning All It's Tuesdayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy xx0
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Yeh Hello @janer1967 - nice to see you to see you nice - we've missed you - glad your feeling better today.
No major plans as yet for us, middle son said he might pop over, before he goes back to work tomorrow. xx0 -
Think quite few go back today or tomorrow toby back tomorrow fiancee today but he got the bug now
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Bless @janer1967 mind you bet everyone on the plane got it by now ha ha. So glad your feeling better tho, it is a horrid one, just hope it doesn't linger long for you darling. Yep most of our lot back in tomorrow or Thursday, back to reality ha ha x1
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Good morning all
I had a bad night sleep again
Was up 4 times before 1am
Its raining here and dark0 -
Morning everyone.
Raining here too, was loud last night. Let’s hope it clears away at some point today.1 -
Good morning @Amberpearl sorry you had a bad night again darling.
It's nice here at the moment, almost a frost last night by the feel of things, but i know the forecast is for lots of rain for us this week, but at least its going to be mild, well fingers crossed it will be ha ha.
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Morning @66Mustang hope all's good in your part of the world, you got any plans this week ? x0
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Thanks @Teddybear12, good luck at the dentist1
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I've went back to my bed as I'm just so tired I'm not sleeping too good at all lately. Think the PIP assessment is playing on my mind tbh
My fibromyalgia certainly is playing up as I'm waking up during the night with the dreaded pins and needles feeling on my face, jaw thankfully the splints I wear on my hands help in regards to my hands.
I'm planning on resting for a wee hour then I plan to get up and chill out with some film atm its between Twilight or Dirty Dancing.0
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