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Online dating
I'm lesbian and disabled and struggling to find a partner. I've done countless online dating sites and got nowhere. I've been single for 14 years and feel it's time to meet someone. I'm just not sure how to go about it. Any ideas?
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Divorce lawyer for the disabled
I used to be a high income earner. I earned most of our family fortunes and now became deaf blind due to illness. I have to quit job and my wife asked for divorce. She took advantage of my blindness and moved away all the valuables at home. I need a good lawyer to protect my pension and remaining assets. Unfortunately the…
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Divorce,disability,health and "fair?
Anybody else in the same,or similar position now or in the past, with being divorced,or in the process of getting divorced,and have a disability or have some sort of heath problems,and keep being told by solicitor or judges in court that everything is being done "fair"? "Fair" seems to be a one sided expression for the…
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Dating
I have been single for a few years since I got divorced I am finding the men online ghost me when I tell them I have disabilities, why are they so cruel? It now makes me think I will be alone for the rest of my life.
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Difficulty using viagra, other solutions?
Hi I'm **** and have diabetes type 2 and lived with ED for some time and its causing problems now that my wife and I have both now got more time, together. It's difficult using Viagra as like all the drugs are not very helpful when demand is suddenly switched on and by the time I get there, which is getting less in demand,…
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My - Ongoing - relationship with the Outsiders & why I mostly love it
I came across the Outsiders Club, a charity group only slightly older than me, back in 2007. 2 years earlier I'd been seriously ill in hospital with meningitis spent 10 weeks in hospital, lost my memory, my muscles & ability to walk. I'd even forgotten I had a girlfriend that I'd met some years earlier in my Uni days! I've…
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Pride posts - Share your LGBTQIA+ pride 🌈
It's Pride Month! Being any part of the LGBTQIA+ community and also disabled brings a whole bunch of nuance to our experiences both in our pride and the challenges we face. I was asked by an Admin to write something for the community about my experiences and I thought we could start a thread sharing what we are celebrating…
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What makes online dating better for short-term relationships than long-term ones?
I'm the same person as splatmate25 users. I didn't want to use anymore. I took a break from it. Starting using the one now . I noticed that there has been an increase in some guys interested in short-term relationships and hookup. It did only happen sometimes on mainstream dating sites/dating apps. I see some of the…
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A discovery I made at age 18
A discovery I at age 18 was I was attracted to transgender females too.My wife knows this and she is 100% supportive since she is bisexual liking women too.I was curious,was with a friend and we stopped to see his cousin LeAnn whom is trans.LeAnn and I looked at each other getting closer finally making out kissing.and then…
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Should you give up on online dating and look for a long-term boyfriend instead of online dating?
In my experience, dating apps don't offer a good opportunity for me to find a long-term partner, since I had a bad experience with them and only seem to like the 15% of some men that never going to have tried much comes to have most of the attetion of lot women and I'm not that much interested in 15% and mostly likely to…
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Although I am meeting more guys and improving my conversation skills, how can I build relationships?
I have been going out more and social events even with my mother still go with me. I meeting more men and have been talking and getting better but I'm not making much progress With getting into a long-term relationship and building relationship. I had used both online dating which hasn't been much success for building up…
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The reason I'm attracted to ginger guys rather than guys with blonde hair or with other common hair?
I'm was attracted to one guy from adult gaming but now I'm noticed that i do not get attracted to one guy. I'm now noticed to two new guys from adult gaming that I hadn't noticed before. I can get turned off for some reason very quickly. The two new guys I said hello to and said my name. He did say his name back to me. I…
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How do I feel about online dating? Was it good before, but now it's bad?
My opinion about online when i did was starting is was good i got to meet a few guys but after i give up since now is very bad and not many users are not interested in long-term relationships. I had started to notice rude and disrespectful users more now that I see online dating sites. I blocked and reported a guy for…
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What's a red flag in a person that you would not take ?
Mine is a person being rude to a waiter.
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Can you suggest anything I can do about the fact that I have noticed some guys are texting me more,
hi, I'm name is Caitlin . i been noticed that some guys that i don't text or don't bother to text some guys but seem some guys seem to be texting me more . yet when i did tex some guys they didn't bother to text back that much and wait about more then days to reply or didn't get reply at all . I'm interested in one guy at…
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Deep Dive into Daily Disgusts
An evening exploring our Daily Disgusts and the taboos around our bodies Are you ready to get comfortable with being a bit uncomfortable? This event will bring Talking Taboos’s signature practical frankness to a deep dive into why and how we experience daily disgust at our own bodies, and how this has led to serious health…
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How can I approach a guy I'm attracted to after having a bad experience with my exboyfriends?
I'm maybe attracted to one guy that I saw one time when I was at adult gaming in April on Thursday. I was playing a video game called just dance but didn't noctied until after he was right next to me. Then I did see the guy and did noicted the guy to me. I did try to say hello. I didn't get much chance since I went on…
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Deciding to be single and kid free
Just learned one of my mates is gonna be a dad an im still single 34 but I feel like I just don't have the skills to be a dad + two heartbreaks are enough. I always thought it was possible to find "the one" but it's an idea i'm close to resigning, am I right to?
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How to deal with feeling nevous about want to talk to one guy that i'm attrated to ?
Is been a good week this time. I did say bye to one guy that I'm attracted to. I do want to talk more with one guy but I get nervous and shy around him. I have noticed that I seem to be attracted to guys who are shy. as I noctied that I might be getting butterflies with only one guy from adult gaming . Is there any other…
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Are there any reasons why I have been unlucky with online dating and previous relationships inrl?
I been unlucky with online dating and did meetup with some previous guys throughout online dating. One man turned out to be a player and I got turned off very quickly and some other guys did lie about being taken and it was already quickly turned off by guys. Has one guy that wants both a sexual relationship and a…
