Although I am meeting more guys and improving my conversation skills, how can I build relationships?

Splatmate24

 I have been going out more and social events even with my mother still go with me. I meeting more men and have been talking and getting better but I'm not making much progress With getting into a long-term relationship and building relationship. I had used both online dating which hasn't been much success for building up relationships and feels similar to real life dating or meeting new men. I don't see how to get attracted to anyone in my friends group. Might like some guys that I met at adult gaming. I met other guys at an event in the city centre but I'm not sure yet about guys. I don't fully trust some women since I had a bad experience in college and my previous ex friend did temp some previous guys to cheat on me. There were successful. I'm okay and this is my own experience you don't tell me is men's faults. It can be men's faults and could be anyone can be at fault. I'm not in college anymore. Why am I meeting more guys and improving my conversation skills but not getting into successful relationships?