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Sex with SPMS
I was diagnosed 9yrs ago but, 3yrs ago I was diagnosed with SPMS. Would anyone be able to help me and advise me, as I still want sex & foreplay, but how can I have oral sex again, as I’ve not received oral for 7 yrs because it’s hard and difficult, but neither I nor my boyfriend can sort out this problem. I have abduction…
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Seeing a Sex worker
Hi, I suffer from Cerebral Palsy and I have got a meeting with my Care agency on Monday 8th
January and need any information, I want to go and see a sex worker from the
TLC again but my new care agency will not decide on whether to allow their staff
to take me. I have been told by disability organizations that they are…
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My wife doesn’t orgasm from sex?
I have been with my wife for a few years now, and it’s a bit unusual but all these years she doesn’t really orgasm that often from oral sex , she prefers and orgasms from intense breast stimulation (sucking licking etc) . When we have sex in the missionary position , she tells me the initial stimulation is the best even…
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escorts
I'm looking for a escort the problem is that I'm living with my parents and the other problem is that most escorts live in flats I'm disabled and use a large electronic wheelchair please I need help
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Hi, my name is adamtwin! need help with axiety erectile dysfunction
Note from online community team: This post contains mature themes and frank discussion about topics of a sexual nature so may not be appropriate for some members and younger people. Hi I need help with axiety erectile dysfunction
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Home Service
Note from online community team: This post contains mature themes and frank discussion about sex so may not be appropriate for some members and younger people. hi there in Gordon 62 and live in Motherwell Scotland south of Glasgow, I am disabled and bedridden in my own high rise home , iv never really been interested in…
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Sex Q & A with Gill
Hi Everyone, I hope all is well? I did a search under sex and dating and came across a Sex Q & A post with our Sex Therapist, Gill. It was an interesting read.of course, this was a couple of years ago now and I was just wondering how I and maybe others could perhaps reach out to get some help and support please? Thank You…
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Hi, my name is Zawrzykraj14! I’m looking for an agency who can provide help for someone i love.
no idea whom I’m talking too. I know someone I love who wants to have sex. I’m looking for a agency who can provide that.
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why do a large proportion of abled women think men in wheelchairs never think of.... You know 😜
Hi All, Why do abled women largely see us as non-sexual and pure innocent? Just wanted to ask, where does this stereotype come from? Abled folks who work with disabled people for the most part don't think that. However, my pet peeve is when people think we don't joke, screw around, and cuss like everyone else. I mean I may…
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Sex sex sex,
hi I’ve been with my partner 9 years, sex was amazing until I got ill., for a bout 2 years I’ve not been interested, Im fat and feel very ugly, I’m scared he will leave me, he does everything for me and our children, am 32 he’s 50, he deserves so much more, I’ve fibromyalgia I have borderline personality disorder , chronic…
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Is post-lockdown sex a 'daunting prospect'?
In this Refinery
article, Melissa Parker touches on the otherwise taboo – disabled people’s
fears around dating and sexual intimacy post COVID-19 lockdown. Can you relate? The end of lockdown signalled for many an opportunity to
re-enter the world of dating. However,
for Melissa who lives with Cerebral Palsy, this much…
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Sex and CP
Hi im looking for advice, I was recently in a relationship with able person but split up two weeks ago. I feel this is my fault as his told me that when we had sex I didnt do anything apat from just lay there... in October 2015 I had a spinal fusion due to my CP. His told me he never wants sex with me again :'( is there…
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Reported to DWP for having sex
I suffer from Anxiety and Depression and I claim ESA and PIP Benefits. An Ex boyfriend has reported me to the DWP saying that I’m well and that there is nothing wrong with my health because I occasionally meet a partner for sex. Can I get into trouble for being active sexually if I’m on Benefits for depression? Thanks
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Disability and Sex a hidden taboo
Disability and Sex: A Hidden Taboo in Society? Credit: Мария ГисинаDisability and sex are a combination rarely discussed whether that be in mainstream media, healthcare, education or in general society. Too often the assumption is made that people with impairments do not date, enjoy intimacy or have an active sex life, and…
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Disabled friendly sex toys
hi all I am a quadriplegic person of 47 years old. I live in a care home in Cheddar. Icurrently use a hot octopus solo lux which works for me but might not work for those worse off. I am currently trying to get a project up and running with a sex toy company to make some sex toys for disabled people and was wondering if…
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If You’re Unable To Find A Sexual Partner, Do You Rely on Masturbation?
Hi all, This is something I struggle with. As a 41 year old male with cerebral palsy who has never been in a relationship or had sex, masturbating on a daily basis is my only form of sexual release. I constantly find myself attracted to women who are not interested in me. Whether cerebral palsy is the main reason I don’t…
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sexual advice
Hi, could anyone give me some advice, an adult career offered to help me to relieve myself sexually because I am unable to help myself due to my disability, I am an adult and I thought there was no law against two adults having sex. She was helping me to enjoy my sexual feelings which I had never felt before.…
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Sex
Wish i had a sex life
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Sex worker and client with cerebral palsy want to ‘normalise’ disabled sex
Sex worker Olive Pearl and her client Gavin Thorneycroft, who has cerebral palsy, are speaking out to try and break the stigma around sex with a disability. The pair, who are now good friends, are encouraging others to be more open-minded and understanding. Gavin, 32, first reached out to 30-year-old Olive for a session…
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FTM Dysphoria During Sex
As the title says, I had some questions about how others navigate(d) sex pre-transition. I will be getting very descriptive. My main problem at the moment is that I do not yet have anything visually or functionally resembling a penis, but when I think about my partner pleasuring me, and what I would want from them, I can't…
